In an ideal world like this, I'd marry the ond I love and the one that loves me.
Right now I'm in a symbiotic relationship. We don't really love each other but have care and respect for each other. Our relationship is built on rules and respect.
I too am aroace and I approve of this message.
Love isn't lust, passion, attraction, or infatuation. It's trust, respect, loyalty, communication, shared values, etc. The former are things with an expiration date. Whereas the latter form the foundation necessary to have a healthy long-lasting relationship.
Is he having his period?