So I'd some toxic romance story recommendations, I don't care if it's straight, yaoi or yuri, where the main character in the end leaves the toxic love interest to heal and lives alone or with someone that actually loves them. I don't want the toxic love interest to be a secondary love interest, but the main one. Something like the webtoon "who is the prey" or the book "Hunger games: The ballad of songbirds and snakes". In these stories the female protagonists leave the toxic male leads and lead lives for themselves in the end.
i noticed people kept on making comments about characters who have "too white" for them skin and that they look like ghosts. Would you mind stopping that? It makes me feel like shit especially since I've been called a ghost and been bullied for it before. Imagine the backlash someone would get if they said yellow or too dark yet for them it's somehow okay to call someone a ghost or ugly for their "too white" skintone.
I saw a comment saying that age is just a number and as long as there's consent it's
okay. Sure i agree as long as they're both adults or only have like 1 or 2 years of age difference (in case one is not an adult for examply a 17 year old dating a 18 or 19 year old). I even found some thinking it's okay to date someone who is 12 year old as long as there's consent, and all i have to say is that I'm disgusted. A 12 year old can't give consent, it's called grooming. People who think this is okay should just fucking die already. Sometimes mangago comments honestly make me wanna cleanse my eyes. I was so disturbed with the "12 year old" comment that I'm pretty sure I'd beat that person to pulp if i met them in real life. I'm sorry for the angry rant, but I'm glad i got this out of my chest.
Hello. I have a question: If someone got bullied right in front of you, in a really severe way (physical abuse, humiliation e.t.c), would you:
a) Stand by and do nothing out of fear that you'd get bullied too
b) Stand by, laugh and curse at the victim along with the bullies just so that you'd please the crowd and fit in (even tho deep inside you know this is wrong) then tell yourself that you're not the actual bully just because someone else started like a pathetic hypocrite
c) Try to protect the victim in an obvious way, stopping the bullies directly and risk getting also bullied
d)Try to protect the victim from behind the scenes, even tho you know that the teachers don't do much and end up risking perhaps exposing the victim in some sort of way instead of really helping them
e) try to befriend the victim and try to make them feel better, risking again gatting bullied
Please select one of the letters and if you're not bored, explain to me your reasons.
D for me because i personally don't have the courage to call someone out in person (it's just my character).. also not sure about teachers since if it was that severe it would probably go straight to the police from me.
E would also work for me but I wouldn't befriend the victim per se, i'd just go out of my way to make them feel better for a few minutes and then go on with my life afterward... im not about to carry a burden i dont need for the sake of being 'nice' or out of 'pity'
d, although this may not sound super pleasant, but i’d also take photos or vids for evidence. not e though, not trying to offend others since i saw a lot of ppl were saying they’d do that.. i get that you’re trying to be sympathetic and helping me, but i think it would kind of feel like they’re mocking me if i were the victim.
Nope. It is pleasant and actually the smart thing to do in my opinion. At some cases tho i may end up doing c, I'm rather impulsive.
Also i completely understand your point. As a person who has been bullied before, my mindset during those events was rather chaotic. I was depressed and any sort of kindness would end up making me feel as if the other person is pitying me. Nobody wants to be pitied.
the funeral example is a completely different situation that doesn't at all connect with feelings that lead you to help or not to help someone. In a funeral that person has died, is already lost and you've never met them, of course you won't cry but in a situation were someone gets bullied you have the chance to help the person since you're empathetic. You feel what they feel, which is suffering and since you don't want to be in a situation like that yourself you unconsciously don't want that person to feel and experience something bad either. You see yourself in their place. Plain as that. If you were in a sticky situation yourself, you'd need someone to stop it. You treat others how you want to be treated, with warmth. Of course not everyone is like that and not everyone would understand what i mean. Many people have low or zero empathy and i guess that's natural to them since this is how they grew. To some the sentence "Each on their own" is a way of life. I'm not judging, I'm just mentioning.
can someone recommend me for a change a straight smut manga or webtoon with a genuinely sexy male like those who appear in yaoi? By sexy i don't mean only appearance wise. I don't want their personality to be disgustingly cheesy and tryinghardtobesexy like most of straight smut. I wanna be impressed in a straight webtoon for once. I'm into any kink, no problem with that. Just recommend me one that is good. I'm quite desperate
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/otto_wa_watashi_ni_mainichi_maiban_oboretai/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/ero_shinshi_no_gokujyou_teku_sono_seikantei_ore_ga_sodatete_ageru/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/sagikekkon_renaichuu/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/tonight_you_will_be_mine/
^ dunno if you'll like these buuuut the ml leads are chefs kiss
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/honey_bed_talk/
^ALSO THIS is phenominal just a bunch of women being disappointed in men in the best way possible
You know what i realized while replying to certain comments in certain manga? That the saying "Don't argue with stupid people, because they'll bring you down to their level and beat you with experience" is very true.
- A person that is currently very annoyed
Seriously tho, if i conversed with these people up close, I'd end up punching them. I hate it when they insist without having any proof to prove their point and simply ignore what you said when you explained it quite simply and in a logical manner (with proof too).
-a person who would probably murder people who insist on stupid non proved "supposed to be" facts.
I just repeat in my mind "Dear God give me the patience to endure stupidity and the virtue to understand that I can't fix stupid"
I've had years of experience and honestly, it doesn't get any better. I always get unreasonably angry someone with negative iq. The most logical choice would probably be to walk away from the argument and save your precious braincells.
-someone who never walks away from arguments and has lost countless braincells due to frustration
yeah, it's ultra hard to hold your anger, and yes sadly the only way to stop it is by simply ignoring the conversation. At least the anger by ignoring it will be only for a few seconds compared to you actually answering and ruining your mood. I really need practice for that
-Someone who can completely relate with you when it comes to this.
Have you guys ever been annoyed by ignorant people in the comment section of a manga/webtoon with psychological genre? I've seen plenty of them claiming stuff and acting as if they're knowledgeable about psychology when all they did was a google search and Wikipedia speed read.
I'm not sure which comments you mean in particular but I have been bothered by some people assuming everhone can handle fear and threats and get mad at victims for not doing anything when they are scared or anxious... People face threat differently and not everyone moves on within seconds and get their rationality back
yup! That's part of what i mean. They literally have zero knowledge and respond based on their own emotions and what they think is right instead of analyzing different perspectives and providing any solid proof that what they claim is right. They think that just because they are a certain way, that others have to be that too.
Rather than that I see it more as them forgetting they are the observer so they have the big picture while the character has a narrow vision and can't see clearly since they are trapped within their emotional box.
It's kinda the same thing when people shout at their tv when someone can't see something in their blind spot but viewers can and they get frustrated
How do you turn off your moral compass and enjoy manga just for abs and looks?(this is manga related right? hope my account won't get restricted) For example, I've seen many who got to enjoy a certain character as ml despite him being an asshole just because he is nicely drawn. I'm not being sarcastic, i genuinely want to know. I'm actually jealous of people who think like "It's just a webtoon, who cares" and keep on reading it and accepting the character. I'm not capable of that, i just can no longer enjoy the webtoon and drop it.
Don't force yourself to like something you don't. Personally I can like characters by ignoring there personalities but sometimes their personalities are impossible to ignore and I drop it. It's a natural thing not a switch to consciously turn on and off (at least for me). There are a bunch of other nice characters that are extremely hot anyways.
Many characters are drawn good-looking so just have to draw yourself back to the real world a bit for characters like these. I try to think about the person's characteristics on a real person and I get disgusted so much that I am able to drop that work and not try to tough it out to see the story through to the end.
Hello, can you guys recommend some webtoons (or manga) that are romance (+others tags of course) with ml that is unapologetically a psychopath? Not someone that doesn't just start out as evil but is just misunderstood. I don't care if it's yaoi or straight, I'm okay with anything, smut or not as well(something that doesn't contain rape if possible.) I want someone that is kinda like Kang Moo from 'the beast must die'.
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/the_edge_of_ambiguity/
Read that one, but thanks for the rec! <3
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/the_beast_must_die/
I mentioned in the paragraph that i want someone like 'Kang Moo' so I've unfortunately read 'the beast must die' already.
oh i didn't even notice. sorry about that.
1. https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/black_mirror/
2. https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/mad_dog/
3. https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/murderer_llewellyn_s_enchanting_dinner_invitation/
these are the other ones i can think of
Don't say sorry, I'm grateful you even take your time to rec, so thanks!