"You didn't even try to understand me!" So she should have stayed back, getting every single day mistreated in order to understand you?
Is it also her fault you deceived and took advantage of her and created a fake version of yourself for the sake of your revenge?Her fault she didn't see through that as a naive, sheltered person?
Not to mention that he NEVER tried to understand her either, even though in his case he was welcome to, unlike her. He only embraced a distorted version of her that he made up in his head, but i guess for Heiner Annette is as 'heinous' as he sees her, while he is only 'misunderstood'. He deserves understanding while she doesn't.
And i guess he also knows her feelings better than her own self, right?
Trauma is not an excuse for perpetuating harm and suffering, nor a free forgiveness card for causing emotional or physical pain to others. Trauma may help explain why someone is primed to think, feel, behave, or react in certain manners or in certain contexts. But having experienced trauma is by no means a justification for harmful behavior and no amount of trauma exempts a traumatized person from being held accountable if and when they hurt others.
And this is for the people insisting they're both at fault. No, they're not. Yes, Heiner is traumatized and DIDN'T deserve what happened to him and yes, this experience changed him forever and understandably so. But he is STILL an abuser. And no, Annette is not at fault for being born ignorant in a society where women of the higher class were bred to be sold off for marriage. Ignorance and inability to be given an opportunity earlier in order to correct it is NOT her fault. She did not give the orders and she certainly did not wish for anyone to get hurt. There's ZERO indication she knew what was even going on. She was sheltered and controlled her whole life.
That's why i find the people, few as they are who find excuses for Heiner to justify him yet criticize the hard work of a person that was bit down by guilt and the hatred of a LOT of people but despite that they rised up and tried to move on, annoying. Heiner's feelings aren't her responsibility.
Wow i hate him. Like, i legitimately find him revolting. And i normally like yanderes.
But no. Not this guy.
He's giving 'i'm an egocentric narcissist that only loves myself'.
When he said 'but that would hurt you!' pretending to care, he IMMEDIATELY contradicted himself. What a selfish, delusional, hypocrite he is indeed.
Can't wait to see how this mess will unfold
LITERALLY I usually do like yandere stuff, but he actually disgusts me. He makes me wanna throw up honestly, no degree of grovelling could fix it.
It’s like the part of my brain that feels sympathy in those moments has switched off for him, and instead the disgust reserved for those gross creepy antagonists who won’t leave FLs alone has been switched on for him He’s gone too far imo
Fr and I've read pretty DARK stuff. Like really dark. But for some reason, idk it may be because of the way he's written or the fact that he pretty much betrayed her at the start that makes me feel disgusted with him. I won't place logic in my standards since this is fiction but yeah, idk. I just hate him lol
He's going to rape Inseob and he's going to make him bleed. Once he realizes what he did and sees how Inseob fears him he'll get something resembling a panic attack. He'll try to change for the sake of Inseob, he'll go to therapy and all BUT he'll still be terrifyingly obsessive. Just way less abusive. He'll no longer demand sex e.t.c. He'll genuinely feel like shit. Inseob is probably the only person he has ever felt sympathy for. He may not completely understand him but he can see he is hurting him.
ohhh- what chapter is this in novel?
What’s going to happen with that pic?
Can't remember, it's been a while since i read it but it's close to the ending.
You mean my profile? That's the horned King from the movie 'The Black cauldron'.