just break up. if y'all can't talk properly after 7 years and figure your shit out and solve it, just break up. y'all aren't compatible. either get some therapy and actually try to save the relationship or just go your own way.
i'm so upset lol this is so stupid. i loved them so much and these side stories have kinda been ruining them for me, like to the point I just think they'd be happier if they broke up in the long run.
don't come for my throat for this i'm just tired akjdskfdhf