
I honestly can't stand them. All these pretty capable woman falling in love with a simpleton with no talents other than being pervy or kind (two things I don't find to be proper talents) is annoying and kinda degrading to both genders.
Why are the Male leads so plain and boring? Why are they such weaklings and losers compared to the girls? Why do the girls fall for them? There is never an equal give and take in these poly relationships.
Why are the make leads such perverted assholes. They use the ladies as only fap material and it's annoying cause you know they only care about the girls bodies. Either that or they behave like a normal human being and are "nice". These girls need to know that most guys in the world are nice with the added bonus of actually being self-sufficient.
Ending note: most harem manga are trash, if it has ecchi I avoid at all costs, the small amount that are good have Male protagonists actually worth shit but even then GIRLS HAVE TYPES NOT ALL OF THEM WOULD BE INTO YOU.
That is all for my mini rant; and yes if I see the tag harem I find something else

Harem is just fan service for boys who are into “hot anime girls”. Not the best genre but it’s there for bored people or boys interested in that. I don’t think authors care about the male leads and girl leads, they just care about making money from the sexy anime girls. Contains a lot of fan service.

Well i get what you mean, but to be fair there are also manga out there where the girl is surrounded by all the guys in the manga. I also dont like it either, but it's whatever bc it's the authors' freedom to create whatever they want to create. We cant really take away their freedom, so as a reader, the best we can do is just dont read kinks that we dont like.

Honestly I'm only upset at it because of how much of it is produced each year. There are hundreds of harem anime made each year and it's much higher than other genres. I don't like how much of it is constantly made each year while it spreads such problematic issues. "Stop existing" was only a hook and is an over exaggeration of how I feel since like I said there are good ones. I honestly just want money to be put in good stories with self-sufficient characters instead of fan service in a box. I'm also aware of reverse harems and I don't like them as well because often either the girl is abused, the men are like servant and don't have a type, or she isn't self-sufficient. This is about harems though not reverse harems.
Final note: if harems exist make the man able to do something; everyone on earth is talented so not showing that kinda sucks. The highest rated harems that make the most money are ones where the main character does things and progresses the plot. I just want someone to make the relationship even, I just want it to look less toxic.

Again, i totally get what you mean. I personally dont know anything about harem: about its typical storyline, about its sales, etc. simply bc i find it's weird so i never read or care about them. I just personally believe that it's the creators' freedom to do whatever they want to do. That's how a free society works. Some people like to read harem bc they are "pathetic" like that. Just like how some people hate other people for reading yaoi bc they believe it doesnt show a "realistic" gay relationship. And of course, since it's a free society, you also have the ability to voice your opinion. Maybe if people didnt read this kind of stuff (harem and alao hentai) in the first place, the sales wouldn't be so high, and the creators wouldn't have to make them so that they could earn some money.

Thank you so much I no longer feel alone I never watch animes or read manga that have romance & harem in the genre description. I don't like another girl wearing the same outfit as me much less sharing a lover! The class loser gets all the hottest chicks in school and they don't mind sharing the trash. Did somebody beat them with a "Stupid "Stick" or something even animals chose the best to mate with its insulting. Its nothing but wishful thinking for loser giving them false hope!

Random question, is there any yaoi threesome manga where all three people love each other rather than two loving one guy

Hey,this is omegaverse
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/ai_to_makoto_moriyo/

what is the manga where the uke has to act like the semes let because the uke apparently killed his dog where they were younger but not really

Pet? Btw following

You mean the story where the seme tricked the uke into being his slave by saying the uke killed his dog by giving the dog candy or something? Later on uke found outthat the seme gave the dog away because he had allgeries.

Looking for a manga about a guy that over hears his favorite AV stars voice on a train which was coming from a guys phone. The other guy sees him and takes him to the bathroom to have sex.
Also looking for a manga about a prince turning to a manikin because of how selfish he was and turns back after a boy starts working there.
I forgot I could draw and am now I’m cooking up something
When you say more love, i'm going to say that I just want more. But the delinquent x honor student does it for me :D
Servant/disciple x God/creature/giant deserves more love no matter the damn genre, i really need more of it
Delinquent x anybody, gyaru/gyaru/lolita/brolita x goth/emo, older guy with body hair and muscles x another older guy, good bl isekai, ummm, I probably have more but I forgot
*gyaru/gyaruo
Oh! Here’s some more, crazy x crazy in denial, fem boy/ guy who likes cute things x very masc guy, good enemies to lovers
I just realized I need to yap more :
-Butler x master
-Hero x villain
-Hero x half hero/half villain (forgot the main name)
-Alchemist/smart scientist x strong/hard head going on --stupid adventures
-Curse lifter x cursed
-Depressed x knows nothing of it but still cures it without knowing
Oh and I just thought of these, criminal/cannibal x detective/ police officer, loved person x hated person, bad x good, basically opposites lol
Buff likes cute things x doesn't know that they're the cute thing
YESSS I LOVE THIS ONE!!!!!!
Knew you would be the first one to agree lol, we need more of this!!!
Oh I really like this style too ε=ε=(ノ≧∇≦)ノ
Yep, it's such an adorable trope (≧∀≦)
Off topic but I literally can’t look at that kaomoji without giggling cause I keep remembering the time someone said “is that running, farting, or getting dicked down” GYAHAJAHAHAHAHAAAA