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Yep, although it hurts I'm glad it's portrayed more realistically than everything being buddy buddy. Also, when she went back in time I though it would be when the kids is 5 not 15 which makes this an even better redemption arc. Cause they vividly remember her errors which means she has to work twice as hard to get back their love which makes it even more worthwhile and genuine.

I kinda agree with the comment above, about post partum depression. In addition I haven't
seen much to indicate that he was a good father either. You know, complicated lol

He was a poor father and husband. He could tell she was miserable and suffering but did nothing. He watched his depressed miserable wife lash out at their child and did nothing. He sees her now trying to be a better mother and is resentful because he feels neglected as she. Why does she only care about improving her relationship with Vincent when she treated him the worst and not him, her husband. This man is a horrible family man who is also in need of a redemption story.

I totally get where you’re coming from especially when considering she would’ve been about 17 when she gave birth to Vincent and it was mentioned how non of her friends at the time had kids or husbands so she probably really wanted to reclaim her freedom and social life as much as possible, it’s hard being a young married woman at that age with a child. So I don’t doubt that she had postpartum depression and she wasn’t mentally or emotionally ready to care for her child. But that doesn’t also mean everything she’s done should be excusable, and it’s more realistic that her son isn’t fully opening up to her cause he was emotionally neglected by both parents. The fault for Vincent’s neglect lies within both of themselves I think it’s an equal part blame, looking at it from Vincent’s perspective she was too selfish and didn’t care about him while his father was too obsessed with perfection and disregarded his sons emotions

No I agree he was a poor father and I thought he was being supportive by agreeing with her so car but now that you mentioned the resentful part I didn’t even consider it that way... bruh that’s so childish like I get it but also no. I just want Vincent to be happy and now he’s getting in the way of this... he also made it seem like she was just playing around when you can tell how sincere she was being ... i think they both need to have a proper talk about this, he thinks that his sons success/happiness is associated with how perfect of a heir he’ll be while she thinks the opposite ... also I’m wondering if he’s seeing her as getting in the way of him being an heir since she originally “hated” Vincent. It doesn’t seem like there’s a lot of trust in their relationship when it comes to Vincent now that I think about it

That's kinda the heart of this current issue though. She was a bad mother, partly because she became a mother at a super young age. Now her 15 year old son is getting engaged? Yeah...red flag. lol She knows how miserable a young marriage can be for all involved. Her husband should know how difficult a young marriage is too. So why push the issue?

They shouldn't even be talking about engagements. It apparently wasn't the norm when she was 17(since none of her friends were married yet, I'm sure some got married young but I'd guess it wasn't some social ill to not be married off as soon as you came of age.) For the husband to bring up her bad parenting...like right, no shit. Lets not force our son to make the mistakes that we had no choice but to make? Let's pave the way for a better future for him???

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he’s a prince from a fallen kingdom, the one that they destroyed. he’s also the one that’s in love with the maid.

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