He doesn’t seem too bad actually just more fragile than he wants to appear. He didn’t want to be alone but in doing so he hurt one of his closest friends. I feel like he’s going to be a side couple probably with MC’s friend or something I think he just needs someone
They didn’t need a side story, they needed a sequel. This author is really good at slow burn and ehh at fast moving stuff and they should have moved even slower then the main couple not juts because the brother didn’t like him but because he is secretive with his feelings due to his feelings of lack of control and this would also allow the ginger to be more fleshed out since I don’t believe he is so far
Sometimes I come back and think about the story because like her brother was really being abused in biblical proportions. I think it’s a damn miracle he just didn’t kill himself. Like he was being physically verbally emotionally abused at home as well as neglected while keeping up a façade for his younger sister. He was being physically and verbally bullied at school and no one really seems to care. Other than one bystander who like helped once, but didn’t really do anything else which like no hate to her, but like not good. Then he finds out that both his parents died in a car accident and then their last minute they are arguing about what an awful son he is. Like that’s so much. Genuinely that’s so much. I think it’s really weird that people can wave away his trauma when he is by far the character with the most trauma in the entire story. Like his sister went through something bad he went through something worse. I don’t like comparing trauma even situation, but I think it’s really weird. A lot of people are repenting to his sins and don’t care about his trauma when it is unarguably the worst in this entire story. I do think while being a great story it does lose a few points for the way character seems to interact with his trauma specifically because they go while you went through a lot that doesn’t justify anything you done and I completely get that however I feel like you just don’t take a story like that and completely push it to the side and I feel like a lot of them do that. Like it doesn’t justify his treatment of his younger sister, but after hearing all that I can understand him a lot more and I want him to get better not just for the sake of his younger sister because he is a victim who has no one? like has his younger sister, but I don’t think she’s gonna help him as much as people think because she is like a child. I genuinely think this story would’ve been everything if it had one more volume where it focused on him trying to get better with the help of the brother for rent. Because I don’t think he needs to be his older brother, but I think him just being there for him in a way no one ever has been would have done a lot like the firm believe he should adjust moved in with them because they cannot be trusted to be alone as the brother might hurt the sister again because healing isn’t linear, but also because the brother might kill himself, they both needed help and only the sister was able to receive it and I mean like yeah the brother eventually got better but like it would’ve been good to see that journey, even if it’s for a little.
I feel like a lot of people here either doesn’t have reading comprehension or empathy or both because I see a lot of people saying I don’t see how her being neglected makes her homophobic when that’s not what happened. Her being abused made her incredibly lonely and suicidal to the point where she had to move in with someone who cared about her or who knows what would happen. Took her to that she feels like she doesn’t want to experience it again, but she doesn’t want the people she cares about to experience it. She want someone she enjoy her life to be as lonely and suicidal as she was. She equates feeling like this because she was outside of the morm in this case were active in their children’s life. She doesn’t want ML To experiences because she cares for him and he’s already gone through so much she doesn’t want him to experience Homophobia because at the end of day, this is a small town. I imagine she thinks it’s even worse because it’s not like they are gay. They both have clearly dated women before See things they are opening up the gateway to homophobia that they don’t necessarily need to.
People are calling her selfish well yeah she’s using her story colors her vision of the world to see the situation. It’s the basis of empathy but she’s ending up at the wrong conclusion. She understands she’s wrong and she says she’ll stop, but she cannot in good faith support the option where they open themselves up to homophobia. Only problem with her way of thinking is, she doesn’t understand that there is benefits from them, opening themselves up this way because even though they will have to face homophobia, they can do it together and that’s clearly more important. It makes sense that she does not see the benefits of community in this way because like she said, she’s incredibly lonely. The only people we see her interacting with are two grown men double her age or a kid half her age. And the fact that she hurt one of the few people who seemingly care about her is probably eating away at her. Odds are she’ll come around to this viewpoint with the help of MC and probably go back to college or basically be adopted due to the over arching theme of parenthood in this story.
I feel like the situation needs to be handled with more empathy and understanding going into it because even though she is a fictional character, this is a very real viewpoint and this is a very real situation she found herself in the topic of neglect.
I actually don’t hate the brother or his motivations. By the Brother, I’m referring to the new antagonist or whatever not the main character. Him panicking and saying, “I love her because I used to teach her” is clearly trying to think on his feet right. Him and a couple other people have came to the conclusion They can’t rely on the aristocracy to always care for them because of situations around them and to be fair he’s kind of right because the region he lives in is one who is ultimately covered by a man who cares not for people, but for the law. Like he made it very clear if any of his children cross the law, he will deal with them in a swift and decisive way, and he had that done before. He is also worrying about his place in the system. His family is middle management, but if anything, they are lower management like they do not have the power. I think people are assuming them. Like they have more power than other people of the land, but out of everyone we seen so far, they have the least power. If he marries into this family, he will be able to protect him his sister and their descendants. If his sister marries into the family, she won’t be able to do the same. Where is he can extend the protection to her she can’t do the same for him so ultimately he will be in a worse predicament if he particularly doesn’t marry into this family. And if he doesn’t thing that is applicable is him turning down the entire system, which ultimately won’t end well because the one who controls the system isn’t even being touched yeah his family members might die, but him and his wife are fine.
The situation is a lose-lose for him but he also cannot rely on the empathy of people who have shown not to be empathetic towards him. Because it’s not like when he started speaking, they tried to find an end for the situation. They just shut it down. If he was smarter, he would’ve tried to come in the middle of his sister‘s relationship. However, his father is probably not gonna care because at least one of his children is succeeding. There is genuinely nothing he can do and no way he can get out of his situation and I will be surprised if it doesn’t end in his death or him going to jail and being erased and his sister not caring.
He was actually so nice to that guy like other stories would have killed him right there but he was like I will talk with you but you HAVE to stay calm like that’s fair. I love so far how even though we have seen a little about the uncle that I already feel like he’s much better then the father.
So I think the father of Megu is Shoji but she knew Sentarou would be the best father out of all of them and that he would be mad at her but happily be the father even if he knew he wasn’t connected by blood but I don’t think she would have even told him
I don’t think you guys understand. Their relationship barely changed. We don’t get any information on their relationship in the afterword like guys I’m crashing out. Like, yeah they trust each other more but end the relationship between the two has not changed in a meaningful way like they act the exact same like at this point I think I don’t even think they were the C couple. Like every time something with them comes out I have hope and then that hope gets smaller like I’m trying to gaslight myself into thinking this means that they will definitely be a side story about them because there’s so many places where it can go but .
So Taeyang was in love with him first right? Or was he just being extremely nosy? They’re not giving as long as time to develop their relationship, but like the fact that there was really no buildup is crazy
I feel like the side chapter with Jiyhun was cruel. It’s very obvious that even though five years has passed he is still “in love” with chiwoo when it could have been left at that. Having that side story where they stay together but even then it’s horrible is insanely cruel. Especially making it clear that he is insanely suicidal after everything that when down. Not saying you should be forgiven or even allowed back in his life because I think that was good. I think him saying “ i’m not gonna give you a hug as a friend because we are not friends” is good. However, I’m having the character who was being abused by his father who internalized how his father acted killing him/being insanely suicidal is a good ending like I’m sorry but wtf? Even the way the original story resolves with him being sent away to America without his brother, his only support system, was terrible. Now he’s engaged most likely to a woman he doesn’t love due to being in charge of his family’s company and like that’s insanely hopeless. He went from a child who was being beaten every day to an abuser to an actively suicidal man and I’m supposed to be happy about this? Mmm yeah. ok.
This was really good and I’m glad that the end went into his relationship with the parents however, I wish there was a conclusion to the story more from the ex’s side of things because he was clearly willing to dump the girls he was sleeping with to get back with him and even though he is sleeping with women, I believe it when he says he is gay but he desire is fitting in more then being true to his sexuality it’s very interesting and I wish we at least got one chapter from him
Everyone is like “girl go watch your granny” but like how is she supposed to know she was going to have a dementia episode?!? And she already came to the conclusion of it’s wrong like she’s clearly working through something give her a minute to breathe
I’m actually kinda mad bc why did it work? Like why is Oushi going to be friends with him? Like Itsuomi doesn’t respect his boundaries at all to the point of damn near harassment but now it’s fine because he pushed hard enough?!?! He already had to deal with horrible friends and now he has another. He can have friends who want the best for him and also respect his boundaries and he doesn’t. Like he should have just kept walking it’s so ughhh especially bc he respects the FL boundaries by not pushing his feeling on to her. I hope they give him space and don’t just shove girl with dog in his face and give him time with the ONLY PERSON who respects his boundaries aka the guy with the glasses.
I already know I’m coming in with a controversial opinion, but I really liked the sister because I really liked how it showed that none of the people she thought supported her bill had her back like her twin brother finds out she dies. He doesn’t even react he does not care about her Person who genuinely cared about her was her father and the servant. And I like how just like with the main character the sister doesn’t really take the fathers regrets But allows him to be a better person, but it has to be without her because she’s being sent away to God knows where. I really love the end. Her personality is I made my bed. I will lie in it and she does. I don’t like the fact that her lover became a child and the fact that he’s the only person around, but I like the fact that I can picture her with the song I guess by Mitski. I genuinely believe she should’ve showed up in at least one side story, even if it was for a panel and I understand in the original novel she dies. I think her dying was insanely stupid because there’s so much more to say with her living. So many bill stories don’t really have a bill in this. She is a perfect film in this and I can totally see her getting a story maybe move away from her lover being a child and maybe her loving him like a child or moving on and marry someone else like there’s a lot of possibilities that you can go with exiled Child and I’m glad that she is finally able to remove herself from her family and I hope one day she’s able to have a conversation with her dad and only her dad.
What do you mean they have long way to go? What do you mean the actual side couple was the villains what is going on? You’re going to make me crash out like WHAT
I know people are mad at her but it’s very obvious she’s projecting the village’s views on to him and is doing this to help him like how he helped her and is going to learn that he doesn’t need her help but her support instead
I think the clingy possessive friend would be a fun second couple, especially if he becomes a bottom. There’s like 10 other guys at that gym. I know we can make something happen let’s put our brains together.
It’s so funny how gay this family is, and how the sun always taste. The father like I hope his son hates him forever simply because I think it’s the best thing for him so that he never becomes like his father. I am kind of sad that the hot DILF Is alone at the end I really don’t know what happened to him other than him being alone like the death of his heir but he’s a side character so ultimately, I don’t even know if the creator knows about his fate