Leorio asked a question

Why do authors (especially women) make SA and torture their main driving point in their stories? Like isn’t this Boys Love = Gay Love? So why are so many stories about a weak man who is subjected to sexual violence, DV, blackmail, torture, Stockholm syndrome ect? To me that is not what BL is but it makes it seem like that’s what they believe gay love is?

If it was like just to torture men I would understand a little bit more cause men are fkd but like you could write about a woman torturing a man too yk so why specifically are these themes common in BL?

I also think it’s gross how they try to make it seem like being a bottom is a bad thing (lots of men actually enjoy being penetrated especially when taken care of properly like safe sex and comfortable sex and communication)

Everyone is entitled to their opinion but please give me some examples and hopefully factual information as to why they do this.

Trust I like a good crime thriller as much as the next person but some of these stories are straight up torture porn and honestly crossed the line into being on same tier as a snuff film ( ̄へ ̄)

Leorio add manga to list Dropped

"Kang Ji-han, the epitome of a strict kid with good looks that could be mistaken for a celebrit...

  • Author: Bammandeuk , 밤만득
  • Genres: Yaoi / Adult / Smut / Drama / Harem / webtoons
Leorio created a topic of The Hounds of Sisyphus

that is a DESTROYER of worlds tf!!!! Howww!!
Me when it was limp ( ̄∇ ̄") vs me when it got hard (⊙…⊙ )

Leorio created a topic of Tears on a Withered Flower

His dad gonna try to break up their relationship or he’ll intervene somehow cause he needs control over everything meanwhile his brother will also be plotting but Taeha will burn the house down with them in it (metaphorically speaking) gonna let it marinate some chapters so I get all the juice at once ლ(´ڡ`ლ)

Leorio created a topic of PEARL BOY: IGNITE THE DAWN

Does this author not get tired of torture and sexual violence, it’s definitely their fantasy. No better than it being a snuff film, this all imma comment over and out! And to anyone who wants to argue here this is for you because idc I said what I said (︶︿︶)=凸

Leorio created a topic of PIT A PAT

that ml comes to love mc for who he is not just cause of the heart thing like I don’t want mc to lose character cause he has the ex heart and memory that’d be sad

Leorio created a topic of Projection

So now he’s naive about his hyungs job but not so much a fool that he knows what he is doing is weird but continues to do it #-.-)

Leorio created a topic of 19 Days

I’m tired of these two (they are my fav couple don’t come for me) but pls give us the other couple a little bit more. Plus I don’t really like how they resolved without proper explanation and communication

Leorio created a topic of Projection

Did he just forget why he ended up living with him in the first place likeeeee he been a gangster from the jump! I get like there is bg story to why he became a gangster and all that but this is his life now and I hope they don’t make this a “it’s so easy to get out of the mafia especially with the power of love” like no this is noir, gotta see it thru my boy ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭

Leorio created a topic of Projection

Ohhh he don’t even know how obvious he being I love it ٩(๑❛ᴗ❛๑)۶

Leorio created a topic of The Coast of The Waves

Also it kinda feels like the words and actions are not matching when reading idk if it’s on purpose or if author doesn’t know what to make them say as they converse idk hmmm might just be me

Leorio created a topic of Omerta

Why they just time jump like that for (〜 ̄△ ̄)〜 what a waste of good art, it’s like the author started and then forgot what direction they wanted to go as if they didn’t do a story layout to go off

Leorio created a topic of PEARL BOY: IGNITE THE DAWN

From his perspective tho I do understand why and what he means by saying that about Dooshik, to him Dooshik came in and interrupted the status quo and it was domino effect that led his hyung to Dooshik sister so ofc he is upset and to be fair Dooshik really did just come in and use them to his advantage so he could rescue his love and was pretty self centred about it all so I get it. Very great intro to this new story hope it doesn’t go to shit like Pearl Boy tho

Leorio created a topic of Dreaming of the Dokkaebi

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Leorio created a topic of Backlight

Thankful to the author for killing him off (๑•ㅂ•)و✧

Leorio created a topic of The Coast of The Waves

Could the top possibly be a dominant alpha instead of beta cause how is he so strong compared to him i thought alpha was the top dog?? Anyway this messy as lol hope they accept their feelings soon, probably they both having a mental struggle cause of their age gap, the fact they grew up together (one basically raising the other = taboo) ect

Leorio created a topic of Define The Relationship

The sides are so shit ngl didn’t need the drama and could’ve just done a nice romantic proposal like this was just icky (〜 ̄△ ̄)〜

Leorio created a topic of The Hounds of Sisyphus

OH oh no seems like we have a body snatcher or possibly personality disorder hmmm ~(OoO")~

Leorio created a topic of Bloody Lies

It’s like Eugene makes the most dumb decisions then tries to undo it by making more dumb choices omg ヽ(`Д´)ノ