
Why do authors (especially women) make SA and torture their main driving point in their stories? Like isn’t this Boys Love = Gay Love? So why are so many stories about a weak man who is subjected to sexual violence, DV, blackmail, torture, Stockholm syndrome ect? To me that is not what BL is but it makes it seem like that’s what they believe gay love is?
If it was like just to torture men I would understand a little bit more cause men are fkd but like you could write about a woman torturing a man too yk so why specifically are these themes common in BL?
I also think it’s gross how they try to make it seem like being a bottom is a bad thing (lots of men actually enjoy being penetrated especially when taken care of properly like safe sex and comfortable sex and communication)
Everyone is entitled to their opinion but please give me some examples and hopefully factual information as to why they do this.
Trust I like a good crime thriller as much as the next person but some of these stories are straight up torture porn and honestly crossed the line into being on same tier as a snuff film ( ̄へ ̄)
This question has been answered so many times but people even after people explaining it to me, I still find it disgusting and I really don’t understand. The explanation to this is always because of purity culture pushed onto women and how they explore their sexual desires and fantasies in BL and dark romance but why are you exploring that between two men? Isn’t that fucking fetishization why are gay men supposed to be your entertainment because we are oppressed how pushing purity culture about writing and reading about gay men getting brutally raped or about women getting brutally raped by a man. It doesn’t make sense to me. (⊙…⊙ )
Oh I haven’t seen it answered properly anywhere but I seem to always be asking it with each new story I pick up and drop but maybe I’m not looking properly where it’s been answered before. I just yeah find it really disturbing that so many on this platform is like this. I don’t like it so I just drop the story but wanted to get other people’s perspective
Anyone else got recs for the biggest iddies of BL don’t care if top/bottom/switch they just gotta have a phat chest???!!!! ヾ(☆▽☆)
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/off_track_crush/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/rabbits_ejaculate_in_3_seconds_mgs/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/jelly_pool/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/ghost_window/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/amaregulus_soldier_soother/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/hands_up_me/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/tractor_full_of_love/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/swallow_you_whole/
I think it’s less about how the story has SA and more about how the SA is portrayed and how the author shows it as if it’s supposed to be “hot” or “sexy” that type of storytelling is why so many young brains get wired into thinking “oh it’s sexy though so it’s ok” when it comes to rape NO IT IS NOT OK!!! don’t act like you don’t know what I mean when it’s very well known a lot of young impressionable people who consume toxic content are not able to differentiate between real life instances and the media they consume - happens on the daily best example is porn (if you want to argue do so with yourself) ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ノ~
exactly