Girl you need to chill! leaking people's info bcz your work was being uploaded somewhere and you were losing some amount of money?! If uploading illegally is wrong then what is your action?! The author has the right to be pissed and even take legal actions (doing so for a smut work is not really recommended but whatever) but threatening someone and revealing their personal info is not what a human should do. Please if you don't have a little sense of humanity then just don't publish any shit...it will be uploaded in illegal websites whether u like it or not and if you think you can't take it then just don't write! I'm not saying she's not right about being mad, nobody likes losing money, but what they did is just so wrong that I'm speechless. Hope the uploader is doing fine right now, I can only imagine how scared or stressed she might be and I wish I could help somehow.
yeah it's not right to do so when your partner falls asleep but it's not rape! are y'all bunch of kids or what calling everything rape! rape is a serious case do not mislabel things! he gave consent and he wanted to do it but he fell asleep because he was tired and then next day he said he had a dream that he enjoyed. I'm not supporting having sex with someone who isn't conscious it's morally wrong (not considering bdsm), but it's also not rape in this case.
I really feel bothered when people make things awkward during sex, like go brush your teeth :/ it's just I don't know...he sucked YOUR dick not someone else's -_- and also even if he's an amature and isn't making you feel good, you can at least act like you do enjoy it( ̄へ ̄)
that's not the point here :D
saying things in the right way is just so important. Making your partner lose confidence is just wrong. Didn't you see how Namwoo felt self self conscious? Of course you need to communicate and prepare there's no doubt, but how you communicate distinguishes between a good and bad relationship. it's an opinion after all though. (づ ̄ ³ ̄)づ
Uploader, babe please stay safe and honestly I believe you should even take legal actions against the author. I'm not trying to be mean but what she did is like her own character in this work (╯°Д °)╯