
I know what your trying to do, giving some warning for the dude especially you knew she had a husband. BUT GURL YOU DON'T HAVE THE AUDACITY TO SAY SOMETHING FOR THE OTHER GUY. IF YOU SAW SOMETHING SUSPICIOUS, YOU SHOULD AT LEAST TALK TO HER NOT DIRECTLY TO THE GUY. IT MAKES YOU LOOK NOSY AND DISRESPECTFUL. AIN'T YOU FRIENDS? STOP CONTROLLING HER, IF SHE WANTS TO THEN LET IT BE. DON'T BE A SAINT OR BE THE HERO, YOU SHOULD SUPPORT WHAT SHE DOES AND IF SHE HAS DONE SOMETHING WRONG, CALL HER OUT ON HER ACTIONS AND TALK TO HER, AGIAN, I'M NOT SAYING I SUPPORT CHEATING BUT GURL YOU SHOULD AT LEAST KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT HER STORY OR ASK FOR LITTLE DETAILS IF IT WAS REALLY CHEATING, TO THE MAIN SOURCE NOT FROM YOUR JUDGEMENT, AIN'T NOTHING GOOD COMES SOLELY JUDGING FROM WHAT YOU HEAR. TALK TO HER, IF YOU THINK ITS A LITTLE EMBERRASSING OR DISRESPECTFUL TO ASK HER DIRECTLY THEN WHAT ARE YOU DOING NOW IS WAY MORE DISRESPECTFUL. YOU DON'T HAVE THE RIGHT TO STEP UP AND SAY ANYTHING, ITS. HER. BUSINESS.
Some people are scared to love again but hey, the experience and memories you shared with is really worth it. And use it as a key to move on, to learn and be the better version of yourself. Love is everywhere, not just for one person. It also not a curse or a weakness, its a gift you can give for other people or for yourself. If you think that Mincheol is a waste of time, I do not think so... FL felt safe when she was struggling in her teen days because of that guy. For her he was her comfort person and I'm satisfied to see him make her happy. He 'was' useful, but I guess thats all he can do. It's sad but people change, as well as their feelings and also you can't force someone to stay put.
I know its a stupid and selfish idea to cheat on your lover to see their jealous reaction and gain entertainment and satisfaction. Its so, so wrong. If you feel they are less expressive, its just that, the person is tired, or they don't have a reason to feel emotions like happiness.
But hey, I love FL mentality, she is strong and I agree with her. Be happy my gurl!