When I said, "No one has the right to reprimand them of their behaviors towards each other. This is trauma between them," I mean it.
It is the same situation with, "A person who didn't grow up in your house does not get to have an opinion about how you survived."
This chapter was actually so good. It showed that Yeonwoo is not just the usual MC who's too pure where he won't admit his hypocrisy (although that was a trigger). It's so well written and the situation is well thought of.
Get that CCTV Footage. Announce your leave after securing a job and tell him that that's how you're going to repay him. Thank him for everything, coz honestly, you need to. Don't be rude when you say thank you and announce your leave. Just grab that footage, make him regret what he has done. Tell him that you were going to tell him about how the other team was trying to take you in but he decided that it was unimportant and didn't hear you out. And leave. Like, let that man simmer in his own regret.
considering the top's personality and how he took it as the bottom hitting on him, he might have thought that sex was what the bottom wants from him. the pacing's actually better than when you see nonconsensual sex after 20+ chapters or when the top's being delusional saying "You keep saying no but you're tightening up."
i understood their codependency but i never knew that occurred due to such extreme conditions. i didn't really like it when Haesol sort of just told Junhyul that Yeonwoo will not develop if he is always around. but as a psychology student, i just need Haesol to back off and would like Junhyuk and Yeonwoo to get therapy.
Ikr! She really had no right to say those words to junhyuk when she’s barely been in yeonwoos life and knows nothing about him, that was so insensitive of her, even if she was his girlfriend, she’s barely playing the part and has issues of her own that she needs to solve before demanding things from others.
Maybe she shouldn't have interjected, but I feel like there's some truth to what she said, except it's on both ends. Junhyuk feels like he NEEDS to protect yeonwoo at all times, grinning and bearing it even hearing that he wouldn't be able to play soccer again. On the other hand Yeonwoo depends on Jh to the point where the thought of losing him just isn't fathomable. Plus, I would say she's been detrimental to Yeonwoo's current growth. He only wanted to change so that she could see him as a more dependable boyfriend and in a better light, so if anything she (although not directly because what has she actually done) has had more of a positive effect on Yeonwoo than Junhyuk has. They don't need to be apart from each other at all times, but there needs to he less co-dependecy imo. But I don't think anything will change if they both don't acknowledge that. That's just my opinion tho
She had no right to indicate something like that towards Junhyuk. She indicated like Junhyuk was an 'obstacle' to Yeonwoo's healing and that he had no right to be there now that Yeonwoo is healing. But she doesn't even know the history as to why they are codependent. Junhyuk and Yeonwoo's trauma is not even something that is not invisible, they are extremely visible, that they depend on each other. Those reactions were kick started due to heavily stressful situations, and Haesol should have taken a hint that a trauma was triggered due to it. All in all, just because she is a helpful factor to Yeonwoo's recovery, doesn't give her the right to indicate that Junhyuk's presence is an obstacle. If Junhyuk suddenly ignores Yeonwoo, Yeonwoo will regress back to that time when the two didn't talk at all. This is trauma that they need to talk about TOGETHER, and outsiders opinions will cause more harm than help.
Well, yea, I didn't say they needed to ignore each other. I'm just pointing out the fact that there's alot of truth somewhere within her claim. Did she have grounds to speak on their relationship? No. Grounds to interject in some way shape or form? Maybe not as much as one would think, but I'm assuming that as a person who cares for Yeonwoo she wants what's the best for him, hence why she said that, but I think she failed to realize that Junhyuk too has had trauma here. But again, none of Junhyuk's realization would have been kick started unless Haesol said something whether it was uncalled for or not. Whether she was in the right or wrong, I think it's a small yet effective catalyst to both of them healing. She could have worded it better, but we also have to take into account that her as well as the other characters don't know their backstories like we all do. She's going based off of what she's observed so far
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