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Same I also thought that it said talking

this was wholesome ? was it not ?

lol define wholesome

well for yaoi standards i guess it is hahahaha

Yeah I noticed, I dont like all the other of the mangaka series they are boring to read but this one is a flying mark ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~ also the mangaka released a free doujin for the couple and its uncensored too, godly ε=ε=(ノ≧∇≦)ノ

any particular reason why while agreeing positively with me you needed to be shady to her other works? U really couldnt hold back could ya

Btw completely disagree I love her other works too

Well Im not being shady, Im being honest

Sameee, it felt weird fr, like the red haired guy thinks what he have done is right, truly a walking red flag, I hope the mc make up his mind and stand up for himself, but that will probably a few chapter to happen

Er....dude, that's a love triangle. It can be as deep, as dirty and as rough as the author decides. Point is, there are 3 actors and one loses in the end. What mechanisms the author employs is up to them as there are no rules beyond that.

Ofc it would hurt, it would actually hurt more than a vagina since it be dry back there

Tell me you know nothing about sex without telling me you know nothing about sex 101.

Girl what are u even talking about... Of course it can hurt for men too since ur literally stretching out ur asshole??? Like are u slow

Whichever hole you put it into it hurts...

you saying a whole lot of nothing!!

i’m gay and mind you, it fucking hurts like you’re being tear apart into two lol

Girl , are you 10 or what?
Of course it would be hurt for women and men too. Plz educate yourself about sex.
Since asshole is more dry and tight, so you need stretch and lube. If you won't , there will be blood.

Girl, try and see for urself. Believe me, it fucking hurts lol.

are you retarted? having sex in the asshole hurts way more than vagina

..... yeah anal hurts in real life. its not a "trope" its reality.
stuff wasnt designed to go in there, especially over and over. All that friction in a dry area that is tight... fucking hurts.
its going to take a lot of time of constant stimulation and prep for your butthole to loosen a bit.
Its not built like a vag where it can self lubricate, can expand on arousal as well as built for that constant friction.

if you watch actual IRL porn from both men and woman, specifically where they clarify thats its the persons first time. you can hear the painful grunts.
this pain isnt only in fiction and isnt a k-bl trope that straight women made up. i think your forget that everyone has a butthole, you can even try it yourself with a finger and it fucking hurts.... your just ignorant and dont do your reasearch.
assuming that all manga authors are straight and women that are ignorant just speaks on how dumb you are. newsflash, woman can play with their ass

Anal sex hurts more than vaginal sex and that goes for everybody.

LMAOOO everyone's replies are so funny girl anal or vaginal hurts if you don't prepare well enough and even could still hurt with preparation. are you a virgin bc it shows or are you just not sexually educated

lol what happened. let me reply to this madness at the top real quick cause either ure all a bunch of virgins stuffed in a trenchcoat on top of each other or cant read and I cant tell whats what

oh also, to specify what i meant by the gut bounces back.

For example, if u have anal for the first time, and then have anal the day after and the day after that and then the day after that, then sure, the first time will be more uncomfortable and require more effort than the rest, cause the gut's diameter wont have shrunk. If, however, u have anal for the first time, and then have anal again like 10 days later, sorry to tell u ure back to square one with stretching guys. Cause again, IT'S NOT LIKE A VAGINA. There is no first time!!! The gut is made to stretch out according to the size of ur potential excrements, AND THEN STRETCH BACK UP. So no, there is no first time, just GOOD PREP AND PROPER LUBE, once again. And if ure polite, some douching. Tho Im pretty sure Ive seen a yaoi/BL mention douching in my 8 years of reading like... twice lmao.

imma say this too and then im done with this crazy thread: use silicone-based lube that shit saved my life (not with toys tho I've fucked a dildo up or two by accident like this).

if any of u had googled this and gone to a healthcare or sex ed website ud have known i was right btw but what can ya do

girl idk where you learned this stuff from but...

a vagina does NOT get looser after your first time. it's the same exact thing that happens with an anus, the walls go back to their normal diameter. you keep saying the anus is not like a vagina (which it isn't yes) but the ass is like the vagina in THIS specific aspect. the vagina goes back to its original shape after sex, and so does the anus. having vaginal sex for the first time and then 10 days later you have vaginal sex again it is NOT like the first time. same applies to anal.

and again, there is a first time with anal. be fr did you get an sexual education i'm genuinely curious no hate. if you have anal for the first time ever and then 10 days later have anal again, you are NOT back to square one. it's still different biologically and prep wise because your body has experienced it before. it will not be the same as having anal the first time.

LMAO just say you're a virgin and move on we can tell you are clueless about anal and vaginal sex from what you wrote this is just embarrassing for you...

what. i did not mean that vaginas stay loose. Why are you taking the most uncharitable interpretation possible to anything I say, I literally took the trouble to explain so thoroughly everything (like come on this is a walltext up there on my edit), yet you found the least generous way to read what I wrote in the few things I did not explicitly clarify. You only responded to this one thing I did not say explicitly, too.

I meant that with a vagina, it is true that your first time something enters there it does hurt for most (not all tho!) women. I can say for me, it hurt the second and the third too, but apparently that's not typical. Honestly you guys made me think maybe my asshole not hurting on my first time or most times after (apart from those it happened by accident >_>) with anal was some crazy exception I was born with not gonna lie like there were so many replies I double guessed myself or thought maybe it's that I've forgotten cause its been too long since then (I dont fuck men anymore therefore no anal for me - unless fingers count - since like 2019 lol), but u know just look it up in a sex ed website literally they all say it doesn't have to hurt if u prep properly and its not what should be expected.

Idk why you all acting superior while being wrong on such a weird topic. Anal happens in ur gut. It's where poop comes out of. That's the original purpose. Humans putting their dicks into other humans' anuses has very little to do with their intended function.. If I had anal now after 5 years of not having any it'd be exactly as long to get prepped as it did when I was a 22 year old doing anal for the first time and thinking this shit feels weird again.

I think you are trying to make me mad or something by the derogatory way you talk but tbh Im just confused, like is this really the hill you wanna die on?? If you can only respond by throwing insults at least I know ure just being a troll and dont actually care.
I have at least done my part of not giving the underage kids here crappy sex ed info.

Since Ive already wasted my time here again, here's another tip for the crowd: Go to the toilet and wash down there even if u cant douche. And for those doing the penetration, if a fingernail or two comes out with some poop under it, dont make the person whose asshole u fingered embarrassed, just go wash em lol.

Okay let’s not be ableist. Autistic ≠ Stupid, nor does not knowing something you may not have had to know previously.

I was about to write a whole paragraph but then read your edit and just violently deleted everything bc you're so right.
The first time I didn't feel a damn thing, and most of the times didn't have healthy sex and just hurt like a bitch and I know for a fact it's bc I wasn't ready (girl I was always drunk af), the other was a total asshole who only cared for his own pleasure and so many other things that I don't wanna specify.
It's so fucked up bc talking about these things was taboo till recent years, so it was very hard for a virgin to know what to do to make the whole experience as enjoyable as possible.
What changed everything for me was start using lube and stop fucking with jerks lol.
Everyone experiences things in a different way. For some people, their first time hurts like hell, but for others was okay/good and that's FINE as long as it's consensual.
So yeah, everyone should ENJOY what they're doing, use LUBE (know your lube) and stay tf away from people who don't care if they hurt you or not.

And another thing: I'm with you with the way authors tend to portray anal sex, it was always so funny to me like HOOOOOW CAN YOU DO THE THING WITHOUT USING ANY LUBE OMG poor uke lol.

(English isn't even my 2nd language so i'm sorry if I misspoke lol).

you know what's funny, your condescension and edited OP still make you sound disingenuous af. First times usually tend to hurt a lot more because both parties can be clumsy - which is exactly what happened during their first time (mophead's never been with another man before, hence his comment).

Cute attempt to save the ignorance in your first comment. Next time, perhaps put a bit more thought into your comment if you don't wanna get railed this hard and have to scramble to make yourself look like you know what you're talking about.

TT___TT girl omg i swear i thought i was going insane I even started second guessing myself at some point lol. I guess ppl got defensive because they thought I was shitting (omg pun not intended) on their fave webtoon of the day, I was just complaining specifically about the top having a line that blames the uke hurting on it being his first time instead of him badly prepping him and acting as if its just what happens when u take it up the butt for the first time. Like, that was all on u as the more experienced of the two my man not on the kid's asshole sorry to break it to u. BL have all sorts of weird inaccuracies all the time (like a bottom climaxing from the backdoor from the get-go or feeling it from their nipples immediately haha, they are just weird clishes or tropes that authors love to go for), but this one that korean webtoons have had often these days of it being a bottom's first time and it having to hurt as if they are a woman with a vagina and an unbroken hymen really gets to me because that goes beyond romanticising the perfect sexy time, that's legit terrible sex information and thinking of gay sex in heteronormative ways that are completely skewing reality!!! (off the top of my head, i really like the new employee but they do this there too and in fact they reallyyy hammer it in like he's having his necessarily painful first time as if he's a woman he's legit crying and "putting up with it" and the top just keeps on goingggggg uuugh it's so weirdly out there!!) ╮(￣▽￣)╭

I'm glad to hear u escaped the clutches of shitty anal lol, it's been so long since I had penetrative sex like that but I've had a pretty good history with it tbh, for me it never really hurt unless it happened unintentionally. First time I had anal was with a guy who was pretty experienced with it so even tho I was a complete noob it went completely fine. I did think exactly what I wrote tho lol "this feels weird and could have been more fun if he had gone for hole number 1", it took me a few times to get into it and it def wasnt enough by itself ofc. I do remember tho very distinctly the 2 times someone put it in unprepped by accident and I can say for a fact both times were getting so freaking painful we had to either take a long break or stop fulltime lol like that sort of pain aint sexy
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Alsooo speaking of bad sex info ... I recently even saw in Be the Good to My Bad that the top literally tells the uke he's WET. WET. FROM WHERE SIR U DIDNT USE ANY LUBE. THAT'S POOP JUICE IM SORRY TO TELL U. And then ppl shit on me for calling the ppl who wrote this straight women HOW CAN THEY NOT BE WHEN NOW ASSHOLES HAVE HYMENS AND SELF LUBRICATE I CANT

honestly Id accept the thought that him saying that is written like that by the author because he's also wrong as an option, but I genuinely think that's not what they were trying to do, it read like a justification to the audience, if it was it'd be framed differently to make it clear it was his wrong opinion (one example would be how authors insert comments like "also doesn't know how anal works" or something).

I exaggerated my reaction in my first comment for comedic purposes and honestly that's the only L I'll take lol cause clearly my attitude really rubbed ppl the wrong way, however I don't understand how I can be critical of one sentence off a webtoon, people respond to it this intense and with like legit meanness and I... have to not be defensive even a bit apparently for someone to take what I say seriously? Am I not allowed to be snarky back, why? I can have all the facts be on my side but because "I sound disingenuous" me genuinely explaining smth doesn't count? Why?

I do not feel embarrassed about this (& I would be if I were wrong), I am legit confused and kind of horrified that this is the result of the horrible sex ed teens (?) are getting, or it made me think that maybe it's more true than I expected that ppl reading BL may have gotten a bizarre (and weirdly heteronormative!) idea of what anal looks like. I could have just deleted this post if I was embarrassed you know, I wanted to actually explain how anal works to ppl who clearly had no idea and were (allegedly) having painful sex for no reason!

It feels like ppl respond more to "vibes" than to what I actually say.

Fair enough. I definitely don’t agree with the others who started taking the piss and you have all right to clap back at them. I’m sorry too for misunderstanding what you intended to convey.

aint reading allat

my deepest condolences or happy for you

Bruh fr somebody get this man some cushion

i was thinking the same ijbol this is k*lling me so bad