Yeah that doesn't excuse the way he was talking about her on the phone with his friend also this isn't something he just discovered about himself, all those years they were dating he knew what she wanted and yet decided that he didn't have to come clean about this whole thing, he didn't even try to hold onto her when she broke up with him, and supposedly didn't even know he hurt her until she spoke up and now that he knows he just wants her to give him a second chance? "I'm sorry I was selfish" nah dude you're still being selfish you can't drop all this shit on her and hope she'll just take you back that's not how this works let her be happy and move on
Yeah that doesn't excuse the way he was talking about her on the phone with his friend also this isn't something he just discovered about himself, all those years they were dating he knew what she wanted and yet decided that he didn't have to come clean about this whole thing, he didn't even try to hold onto her when she broke up with him, and supposedly didn't even know he hurt her until she spoke up and now that he knows he just wants her to give him a second chance? "I'm sorry I was selfish" nah dude you're still being selfish you can't drop all this shit on her and hope she'll just take you back that's not how this works let her be happy and move on