
The worst thing you find in BL fandoms is the r4pe apologist. And what’s even worse than this? They’re mostly women. As SA survivor, i don’t wish r4pe on my worst enemies. I had a really asshole ex, the worst of worst kind, and yes, he deserves karma but it will never include r4pe cuz he never did anything of that sort. R4pe isn’t karma. I’m baffled and horrified whenever I see women defending r4pe. Should I be immune to this when I’ve been in this fandom for a decade? Unfortunately I can’t. Disturbing asf

It’s baffling cuz we’ve been knew that most of bl’s and yaoi have at least one rape/non con scene so it being desensitized or normalized it’s kinda expected cuz “it always happens and 99% of the time they end up together”. As the other commenter said, reading about it is one thing (since a lot of them have those type os scenes), but wishing rape or thinking it’s deserved is fucking disgusting and ppl should go get themselves checked out cuz it’s insane

I’m so tired of authors writing just pure r4pe kinks in the most gruesome ways and people naming it ‘complex or psychological’ wtf? Have you ever read a psychological well written book or manga? R4pe addicts who fetishises gay men call anything that has gruesome r4pe as ‘psychological or complex’ Something is wrong with Korean BL authors and also the readers who love it. Put these mfs in jail.

For people like you, here’s a simple definition and example of famous BL and Non-BL Psychological Mangas. Everything that has r4pe isn’t ’psychological’ Literature Literacy is really needed by both these fucked up authors and readers. R4pe and SA sells fast that’s why it’s so much in p0rn and novels/mangas like this.
“Psychological fiction, is a genre in literature that places a large amount of emphasis on the character's mental state and motivations to drive the plot-line of the story. All the action taking place in the story is a result of a character's interior thoughts and feelings, or their inner 'person', rather than any external action”
Example(Non-BL): Monster, Goodnight pun pun, 20th Century Boys, Bastard, Homunculus etc.
BL: Zetsubou ni Nake, Ten Count, Lost in the cloud, Boy meets Maria, Twittering birds never fly, At the end of the road, Exotic Love, Utsukushii Tamashii AND SO MANY AMAZING PSYCHOLOGICAL BLs And not this bullshit.

The ending is happy so I’m satisfied and happy but I hated how during all the miscommunication part, the concubine and ML’s aunt hide so many things from him, which only increased more misunderstandings.
Also, ASHEL DESERVES ALL THE LOVE OF THIS WORLD. He needs to be more appreciated because if it wasn’t for him, then things wouldn’t be so well
Fighting the urge to read it after reading comments but this now making me curious but I dong want to suffer! What should I do?!
Read the lattest updates. They're finally getting their happy ending.
Please tell me that seme suffers and regrets and then they get back together
He definitely does but it doesn’t make uke happy to see him suffer.