Ok so, I really am about to cry cause of frustration and I just wanna get it out there, WHY DO MOST YAOI MANWHAS NORMALIZE SEXUAL ASSAULT/RAPE???? wtf author??? Like why can't I read a Yaoi with good characters and NO FUCKING RAPIST??? Like I feel so frustrated, I feel gross, triggered and fucking uncormfortable when this happens, IT'S FUCKING DISGUSTING AUTHOR, for fucks sake, I just wanna cry, I feel awful...
What's fucking worse is I have an 11 year old cousin who reads yaoi, and one time she reccommended me this particular yaoi, that made me want to gag cause I KNOW THAT WHAT I READ WAS LITERAL RAPE, and I told her that, but she said "it's fine" like it's so fucking normalized, i'm so fucking tired of this shit ughh
I understand that rape and assault seems to be normalized, to the point where I myself don't even notice it, but if it's what the viewers want and the ratings go up...what is there to do than just go with the flow, but only, and Only if, others can distinguish fiction from reality...I dont care what others see or read, as long as they don't do this in real life
Yeah, that's the thing, when you start so early you learn these things and normalize it without even noticing, you think what you think is right but it's not, you know people who are like you so you feel comfortable to stay the same, and you're either gonna take a while to grow out of those mindset, or you never do. What i'm saying is, I hope your mindset is in the right, and I hope you keep on learning, I don't want my co- fujoshis to normalize shit like rape, sexual assault, fetishizing gay men etc.
Yes yes, I understand what you're saying. I agree that anyone can read whatever they want as long as they don't normalize it in real life, but my problem is, I know there are kids that read stuff like this and normalize it in real life, and not just that, literally MOST as in MOST yaoi that i've read have something to do with rape or sexual assault, even tho it has nothing to do with the story or plot. They also make these shitty ass characters that rape but gets away with it cause in the end they say sorry and become friends like it's so unrealisticly disgusting, the least they can do is put a trigger warning which they did not. Also most of the time the rapist is the seme, but they still end up "happily" together, like wtf is wrong with these author's mind??
Yk what I noticed? Is that when Woohyuk was still obssessing over Jiho, and how he was showing him so much affection and he even confessed to him multiple times, Jiho on the other hand showed no compassion or any feelings at all for Woohyuk, but now that Woohyuk gave up on Jiho, and even (probably) messed up his rice for him to win, Jiho was apparently "happy" that Woohyuk liked him despite him being this broke teenager. Like, ms gurl, a few chapters back you were annoyed by Woohyuk not leaving you alone and you only cared about your cat, how did you suddenly appreciate Woohyuk for liking you, like, make it make sense?
Also, is that pd betraying Jiho I see I knew he couldn't be trusted smh
Jiho never disliked Woohyuk, he was frustrated cuz he felt like Woohyuk was patronizing him during the competition because he had feelings for him. Jiho didn't want Woohyuk to throw the competition so that he could win, Jiho wanted to win based on his own merit but at the same time he is so desperate to save his cat that he has to put his pride aside. Its this conflict between his pride and his being a broke ass college student that build up Jiho's resentment towards Woohyuk. Woohyuks romantic feelings were the root of Jiho's frustration and feelings of inferiority which is why Jiho lashed out at Woohyuk and showed contempt for his feelings.
also pd isnt betraying Jiho, he is just being honest with the other judges which is why he tried to push Jiho to tell his actual story. pd has always been on Jiho's side, Jiho is the one who dropped the ball at the end by not telling his story.
Ohhhh I see your point, but i'm still confused, when Woohyuk showed his feelings to Jiho, that time Woohyuk had no plan on trying to lose just for Jiho's sake, nor did Jiho think Woohyuk would do that for him, they were doing the bgp too so they were only focused on that, they had no discussion on who's gonna win, so I think it's more of the inferiority complex of Jiho, my question is, where the hell did the "happiness" come from? Like he kept on going on and on on how he hates Woohyuk's affection, not once did he act, feel or said he was happy about that, like what??
Also, didn't pd said he'll do everything he can so that Jiho can win?? So why did he not lie for Jiho? Is it because he takes, Jiho not telling his true story as a sign to like not help him anymore?
Yuwon is kinda being selfish...but hear me out. Yuwon chose to only make their relationship sexual rather than dating, cause he's scared people will find out right? But isn't having sex more of a risker option? Or rather, it's BOTH risky, so why keep Dojin hanging by a thread by making the excuse of "let's keep it sexual" just so that Dojin stays. Like it sounds to me, that because he still likes Dojin but can't date him, he insteads makes Dojin suffer by keeping him as a "sexual partner" and that's fucked up, that's selfish. Why don't you just let go of the guy so that he doesn't expect shit from you anymore, since you said yourself that you can't even date him? HE'S MAKING HIM SUFFER, he's using Dojin's feelings to make him stay and that's manipulative af. ( ̄へ ̄)
He wants the man and the relationship but he’s scared of getting his feelings hurt so he doesn’t want to commit. He’s basically just taking advantage of Dojin’s feelings for him at this point.
If he were the seme, all the comments would be calling him an asshole and telling Dojin to move on and stay away lbr.
Yaaaa'lll how do we put the codes in so we can get free inks???? Pls someone explainnnn
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Put on your display name and under the display name there is a bar where you can put on the code
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LMFAOOOO I CAN'T WITH THESE IDIOTS, HOW ARE THEY SO COMFORTABLE WITH EACH OTHER ALREADY