if you want the possibility to continue being friends don't just brush off what happened. if you do you'll always have this negative feeling towards her in the back of your mind whether or not she had a good reason and it'll just end up super bitter and toxic. I'd say just casually ask something like "I haven't heard from you for a while did some......
it's just butt muscles. a lot of people have a good amount of fat there so they're not very visible, but if your ass is flat as fuck and you're relatively skinny/in shape (which is kind of the standard bl body type) you can sometimes see them. if you look up human muscle references for artists you can see really clearly how they look
honestly if you know gambling is an issue for you the best solution is to not play games with gacha options at all because they are designed to capitalize on people that that's a temptation for. but if you want to try smaller steps-
1. disconnect your credit card/paypal/whatever you're using to pay with from the game entirely. you can stop at le......