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this is such a hard situation to be ok with. if my husband disrespected my boundaries and went and essentially tried to force me to communicate with my estranged parent, I'd be furious. Then we would've argued and he spends the whole night out??? fucking livid. then I figure out he spent the night in the house of an ex??? good god I might be ready to draft those divorce papers. that's without knowing for sure that he was FULLY tempted to leave me in that moment. Temptation is normal and sadly a thing everyone has to go through and curb in a long lasting relationship but you don't put yourself in those situations