Such bad vibes from all this meat comparison. I get it’s not that he was trying to say. But compare himself to meat with no agency is wild. Especially because his partner was not distressed because he trusts you. And now he is. Like “I couldn’t resist, it’s all that other person fault for throwing themselves on me and took me away” is literally excuse cheaters use often. In our country there is even counter argument saying like “Man is not a sheep to be taken away”. If it was IRL I would get super fucking suspicious.