
I recently broke things off completely with my bf of three years (2 weeks ago). He cheated on me early on the rel but I still stayed. I genuinely loved him and were best friends. And as much as I relate with Yeonju, I don't feel for her at all.
One, I learned the hard way that you should never center your world around a person to the point where you feel empty and useless when they disappear on your life. Two, your friends are there even before you meet your S.O., and they're definitely the ones who are gonna be there for you when you and your S.O. break up. (Still wished I valued my friends more when I was in that relationship but hey, I'm making it up to them now.) And three, be very secure with yourself and be truly independent that you won't ever let your ex bring your whole life down when you break up.
I know everyone deals with loss differently but no one can really help you get back up on your feet than yourself. Breaking up with an ex is never the end of the world. You survived on your own before he came into your life, what makes you think you can't when he leaves?
Tbh, I expected to be thouroughly devastated about the whole break up thing like Yeonju, but suprisingly I feel at peace knowing this person no longer have the power to make me feel like sh**. It's seriously one of the most liberating feelings ever and I wouldn't trade it for the world!
Why is it so short damn. like give us moreeee (๑•ㅂ•)و✧