Kittykat's Topics (185)

You are so right!!

u know ive been on this website for like 10 years at this point and its only in the past kinda year or so that people have started speaking up so thank you

THIS SITE HAS BEEN AROUND FOR 10 YEARS?! :O

I've noticed the increase in criticism too
I hope it can finally change for the better

yup lol

literally cuz its shameful

its a kink a disclaimer aint gonna change that, like how dont do drugs sign doesnt stop ppl from doing them. plus its not like everyone hwo does it in public does it in a crowded area they do it discreetly

absolutely correct. so many kids are taught not to smoke/do drugs at school yet some of those kids still did i sadly

if you teach them actual good reasons then it can work?? for example, it is violating other people. you are getting off to the lack of consent of others. also this logic is just gross. we should always at least try, so stop.

if taught in a less harsh, more logical way, it works more. for example, calmly teaching kids that if they feel they need to do hard drugs to find a school counselor who wont tell their parents and they can talk through their feelings.

also, discreetly is still not okay???? anyone could walk by and you are violating their consent. they did not consent to seeing that

Teach them good reasons? People can still be taught good reasons not to do smth but they will still end up doing it, yes there are some who dont but there are mostly who do. I dont know how its violating others, violating is a strong word, how does having sex in an area outside violate others? I hope yk that public sex doesnt mean they like to fuck with people around, it just means they like outdoor sex, the reason its called public is because anyone could have the possibility of seeing it. What logic do you think is behind the sentence I wrote? Its a fact, and what should we try to do? force people to stop fucking? yea good luck with that

Nobody consents to anything they see hear or get touched by out in public, you think someone consented to a bird shitting on them, for people to smoke in their face, for them to sit near sick people? No, and discreetly is ok because youre trying to have privacy while still fulfilling what you want to be fulfilled

ummm lol you think thats gonna work? People are still gonna be influenced and still gonna eventually do it, the whole point of the school counselor is to tell the parents what the child told them, that really isnt gonna change plus why would you go to an untrustworthy adult who you dont have certified proof that they wont go and snitch

what do u mean lack of consent of others. like fine i get its a sexual violation if someone just saw sex out in the open but thats not what they are doing. they dont get thrill out of traumatizing people if thats what ur implying.

they are getting the thrill from being in a place where they could get caught and violate others, thus getting off to others lack of consent.

yeah you know what? this logic is nihilist bullshit. there is absolute still a point in trying and educating. because schools typically do not educate kids on why this is wrong and how u can get on the sex offenders list.

if you want to do sexual acts in front of people, or with the possibility of being seen, you need consent from all parties or its violating them.

Fucking in public is not how you become a sex offender, atleast to my knowledge. Never said you couldnt keep trying im just saying that it would likley not work

sooo if i wanted to smoke and just did it anyways am i violating the person near me because i didnt ask if i could

thats an asshole thing to do but its not sex you absolute braindead freak. do you not know that public sex and flashing are crimes for a reason????

you absolutely CAN be added to the sex offender list over public sex because its a SEX CRIME.

Umm im braindead but im using your logic, youre saying that because a person is doing something someone else doesnt want them to do that its violating them. So smoking woulld fall into that category to oh but wait you want something sexual, so how about making out infront of someone? Is that violating oh smart one

Its only a sex crime if you knew people were gonna see you or wanted to, i feel like you think that since the word public is in it you think the people who partake in those activities actually do it infront of others and not do it in an area in public. You can literally have sex in your car but that wouldnt get you to be a sex offender because it wasnt intentional

and this is exactly why they need to teach this in schools. because if your car is parked outside or in a public place, it IS a sex crime. and can get you on the offenders list. oh my god ignorant people need to shut up.

and im gonna say it again: having sex in public places or places that you do not own is illegal. having sex in a park? illegal, u can be put on the registry? sex in a public bathroom? also illegal. movie theater? illegal and they have cameras. this is exactly why i advocate for disclaimers and education. because so many people do not understand the weight of these actions. and also just how immoral they are because its violating to the people who could see, and the environment.

first, smoking in public is often a crime that can get you a serious fine because people deserve to be able to breathe in air, esp if they have asthma. making out is not illegal but it is wrong to do so in public because its violating to the people around, and if ur in a place like a restauant, movie theater, etc you can be forced to leave the premises. you sound like an awful person, its not hard to have decency

Having sex in your car isnt a sex crime lol like what, you must not know what you have to do for it to be considered one, you call me ignorant but you stay being loud and wrong

Omg its like you read and twist it in a way to make it seem like i said something i didnt, did i say it isnt illegal or did i say its only that if the outcome of you being caught is premedatated, like im sure i said that did I not? People who have sex in public whether they wanna be caught or not know what theyre doing, thats literally why they do it and for some people its just spontaneous; its immoral? omg aint no way we're bringing the enviroment into this i actually laughed at that, pls tell me how public fucking is violating the enviroment. Also its very obvious that we both have very different ideals and morals so dont talk about yours like its fact when its just how you feel personally

Some people with asthma smoke too yk, and its only a crime if its in an area that has the no smoking sign. Yikes you sound miserable and a stickler, the type to ruin the fun of others and but in buisness that doesnt involve you. Idk why you acting like i myself do it frankly if i were to have sex in public I'd do it in an area where I wouldnt get caught like an abandoned building or such, I didnt know im a horrible person for trying to understand smth but aight

yes it is. GOOGLE IT. having sex in your car in a public place or where people can see you is a SEX CRIME! oh my god you are a menace

in many cities you can only smoke in designated smoking areas because again people have the right to breathe air. you are genuinley an insufferable person who doesnt care about consent or the law. I hope you fuck around and find out and get put on the sex offenders list.

and btw, you can always get caught. there is always a chance, and therefore it is both immoral and illegal. fuck around and find out, and then youll have to tell every neighbor you ever have that youre a sex offender because you couldnt understand consent

people when porn displays kinks: :O
like seriously i dont think bl manhwa will be the reason someone has outdoor sex, this is like saying video games make children violent and that gay media makes people gay. this is not yhat seriousl go out in the sun and touch grass

fiction does affect reality and as you have likely seen in this thread there are a shit ton of people who do not know how illegal it is to do these things, and likely BL is an influence.... im so fucking sick of having to tell people that fiction does affect peoples beliefs even unconsciously.

no it doesn't
i mean it does but not in the ways you think. not everyone here is an impressionable child hopefully, and if someone takes this ridiculously kinky porn manhwa seriously thats a whole different problem.
my point is just because they have weird sex scenarios none of us really want to actually do all that with our significant other. its not like we read it and be like yeah thats a great thing to do because these drawings did that lol. just because children see people smoking in media and want to try that too that doesn't apply to the adults (at least i hope no minors are here) that are on this website.

people are more impressionable than you think, and also weird to be against a DISCLAIMER. since again there are a lot of people who do not understand how much of a crime it is to have public sex, even in your car. also its funny that you mention smoking because actually yes consistently showing smoking in media influences people to think its not as bad as it is, and the US made a lot of progress by making more media without smoking

putting a disclaimer is only useful if someone is like triggered by public sex but if it makes someone uncomfortable why read this in the first place.
But then putting a disclaimer to tell people not to do that irl is also pointless. people who like having sex in like cars for example wont stop doing that because of a disclaimer, ofc it is a completely different thing if someone has sex in front of other people without their consent but trust me, these types of stories wont be the indicator of those actions.

also about the smoking, it might influence some kids but t dont think the majority of people who start smoking do it because of its display in media, perr pressure and the urge to fit in with certain groups in school or a workplace are far more common indicators of why people might start smoking.

they are all factors. the moral of the story is that media does affect our unconscious beliefs. theres been studies on this. a very recent example is that japanese women are being told to say "yamero" instead of "yamete" because the later is associated with pleasure due to how hentai sexualizes women saying no. so women getting assaulted in public are less likely to recieve help if they say "yamete" because of fictional media and the biases it creates. in this case all im saying is that there should be a disclaimer. that shouldnt be this controversial

again its CLEARLY not pointless because the more its shown like this in media, the more people think its normal to do irl. there are tons of people who think this shit is normal and who dont even know that it can get u on the sex offender registry. i JUST talked to someone who thought it wasnt illegal to have car sex when ur car is in public. it is. all im advocating for here is an educational disclaimer.

well putting a disclaimer wouldn't hurt sure, but they usually dont put disclaimers in stuff like hentai. Japan's sexual abuse problem comes from the societal repression of sex as a whole, sure putting a disclaimer isnt a bad thing but what would help the situation youre describing is advocating against porn and hentai, teach young people about the psychological and social damage it can do. not engaging with it is the best prevention because like i said, these are kinks that people have displayed in these stories, this very bl had shit like bdsm too which also shouldnt he normalised and can lead to crime, but putting the disclaimer dont do this at home wont prevent anyone from it thats why they dont put it there.

no, they dont put a disclaimer cuz they dont see any issue with it. its also the reason why theres so much romanticized rape in BL. the authors see no issue with writing it in. im done.

no no i understand ur point that we need to make people acknowledge that it is wrong, but then what we should do is advocate for these pieces not being made in the first place. putting a disclaimer is ok im not against that or anything. i just wanted to tell u that it is pointless asking for one cause these types of stories do it on purpose, for kink reasons and they don't think it is bad, people who release it are the same. make sure people don't make them in the first place

i think i just disagree cuz i think a disclaimer would bring people down to earth while reading it and also again a lot of people just dont know how illegal it is. but yeah adios

My literal favorite

So real

I MEANT TO AGREE NOT THUMB DOWN WE NEED MORE SUBBY TOPS FOR SURE THOUGH HAHAHA

Chile, I said to myself, "I bet they'd taste like ass."

Temperature play, duh. Lol but I think Bom mentions that they were probably moved there by the movers which is much more horrifying in my opinion

LMAOOOO

Some authors fetishize this shit, it’s heavily marketed toward women readers cause it’s Yaoi. I don’t get why characters would blush while being forced unless they explicitly say they have that kink but we can see MC here doesn’t like it except the expressions ain’t on par.

Authors really don’t have to draw assault in detail but they know it attracts weirdos and many viewers. I just wish it wasn’t so much of ukes being assaulted, I need stories where the seme is also a prostitute and assaulted but of course since ukes are not as dominant and plays the “female” role, they are assaulted the most and fetishized in stories.

Authors can just imply he got raped and little to no graphic rape scenes. It’s not that hard to do, I wouldn’t understand a reason for them to show all that.

Come on now don’t be dumb… you sound like them ppl who say “ your face looks like your enjoying it” NO SHIT their spots are being touched its a normal human reaction that doesn’t mean they enjoy that shit… if you read the dialogue he said multiple times he hates it and wish he was killed.

Also yes your right it doesn’t have to be shown but you can always skip those parts no one is forcing you to read.

Dumb ass I never said that. Bold of you to assume. And he never felt pleasure, his dick was limp the whole time.

That’s not the issue, I don’t see why the author has to show all those scenes? I’m not saying to completely censor it but more like stop showing the rape every damn chapter cause it’s repetitive, that’s all.

i agree that they just shouldnt show graphic scenes to that degree. think about it, when tv shows show graphic rape theyre ALWAYS criticized heavily esp by feminist experts

it doesnt change that the authors know that content appeals to awful ppl with rape fetishes. yes this series is better than all of the BL who romanticize assault and i give them credit for that but the graphic rape needs to stop

i think this person was moreso referencing that when a person is being assaulted their body can react like that, but its purely a defense mechanism. but it doesnt happen to everyone, as u said in this series it does not appear to

i agree its absolutelt repetitive which makes me think even more that the author knows who this content appeals to. like i love the plot but i recognize that this content is clearly made for ppl with sick preferences

Yeah that makes sense

Yes I don’t know why people think I want them to stop depicting rape tf, I just wish it wasn’t every damn chapter. It’s just criticism, I’m not hating on the author, in fact I love their art and other stories. Just the repetition is annoying but I won’t stop reading cause others tell me to just for sharing my thoughts.

The content is def made for people with sick preferences, I’ve seen some readers who literally wished the abuser was the ML instead of Yona. It’s baffling how they can think like that, it’s disgusting, knowing what MC is going through. So I don’t want them readers satisfied and also wish repetitive rape scenes would be reduced a bit.

I swear to god the graphic rape scenes took up like 25% of the manhwa... Like I'm really enjoying the storyline, but really man ??

OMG it did. And while I expected to see it, and didn’t mind it as much, it’s repetitive haha. But I can’t complain too much, the art is nice and it’s good seeing the author show how scared the MC is, shows how victims feel and the portrayal isn’t too unrealistic

It's good for if you wanna be traumatized for sure, I did feel a lot of sympathy for Chang-Il throughout the whole thing. I think I felt like vomiting a couple times too, so yeah that part was well done. It's good that the author didn't draw him blushing and being cutesy though, and it's clear that they are antagonizing these guys.

I’ve read worse cheating stories in BL and seen the worst stuff at a young age (was in 3rd-4th grade started reading explicit BL). Clearly the author is antagonizing them because they’re crazy if they expect us to sympathize and like the bad dude lmaoo. At first I thought the blush was weird but realized some people can “blush” or have a red tint when crying/stressed.

I think the blush was because he was feeling humiliated and helpless, like he's mentioned before that he thinks of his life as kind of pathetic, so being in that kind of situation is like dealing the final blow

yup. unfortunately a lot of people dont have strong morals or just a lack of empathy, but im glad to see some ppl here who care

They switched? Im only on chapter 1 lol

nah switch as in sub/dom