The top cares for at least 1 person, and I understand why he'd be traumatized after all that betrayal and death in his life with no support system or therapy. He's bad at recognizing or communicating his feelings accurately but when he fights it's usually his reaction to thinking they were mean to the person he cares about. I don't think he's a total jerk, and he's on the road to growing emotionally.
Poor baby bighead was crying because he missed his actual mom, and the evil aunt who stole him to raise is not only not his mom but also a super bad mom in general.
I can’t say she’s a bad mom just yet because she’s a “new” mom. She doesn’t k ow what it means to be a parent. I mean look at home bad Feng Jinyao was at the start of the series. He was just expecting RouRou to like him. Even though Yi Yun is definitely RouRou’s favorite parent, RouRou has warmed up to Jinyao and now sees the other man as a parental figure. She’s not used to knowing what it means to be a parent but I do think that maybe she shouldn’t be “bighead’s” mother just because of all the scheming and backstabbing and such. And I don’t think he really is comfortable with her. :/
You know it's bad when being an indentured servant trapped by debt to the yakuza is the coziest and safest feeling you've ever had before. Can you imagine if this story was real? That would be heartbreaking in reality. In a story though this is a cute and fun little read.