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we can all agree,, even if we don't have good vibes from the dude but,,, i want jumin to beat the r@pists ass so bad,,,
just wondering if there are any poly relationships here. bl or gl... doesn't really matter. thanks :)
check this out. I dont fetish anything about yaoi's at all. but in this social media, they will literally ban you and report you for reading yaoi in general. this is a psa somebody made and it pissed me off.
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literally never thought i would need to talk about this /srs but i need 2
pls, stop fetishing mlm and wlw pls like actually. no it doesn't give the lgbt representation, and it gives very shitty representation.
and people call it "oh it's just smexy bl wwowowowowow"
no? it's actually quite toxic, fr, examples of this are bj alex, yarchin bitch club, and more.
(( fyi killing stalking is NOT a yaoi. ))
many of these are toxic 1 on 1 or poly relationships.
and as someone who did support yaoi, i'm now realizing my mistakes, and educated myself more on the topic, and how toxic most of these are.
now, you can argue, "oh, some yaois are wholesome" yeah they are, which is good and stuff and it gives positive representation!
"your homophobic"
just spreading the positive and neg things about yaoi.
most of these y@ois come from lezhin, and anime studios.
and most of these 'relationships' literally just include sex
Wait are you saying this or someone else is? If it’s someone else just ignore them honestly with people like that your not going to change their minds so just ignore them and enjoy what you enjoy as long as you aren’t hurting anybody you’re fine.
I noticed too that there are gl/bl fans that are homophobic but i guess they are those who fetishize same sex relationship.
About the yaoi as far as i know Yaoi is more focused on sex or m2m porn some authors just put some "story" (saw this on a bl manga)
I hoped more bl/gl fans should know the difference between fiction and reality. Stop joking about that every fujoshi wants a diccu or to be male so they can have a boyfriend or assumed that every guy who read/watch BL is gay please stop. Don't also ship every guys or girls out there! Don't also ask who is top or bottom, wife role or husband. Some lgbtq+ really find it disturbing
Wow they said basically nothing yet they dare to pretend to be more "educated" lmao, they didn't reach any conclusion with their "reflection" or wathever that was.
i agree with the fetishizising and the toxic depictions being big issues but that's something present in all generes not just BL or GL and the only way it wil stop is with cultural changes (which will take whole generations), not by demonizing a specific genere.
Also what was with that "just spreading positive and neg about yaoi"? they really didn't write anything we already didn't knew nor did they say aything good about BL
(￣∇￣") I feel your frustration, Imposter.
People like this really bothers me and unfortunately my country have bunch of them :) they actually bothers me more than a homophobic person does it feels so gross and weird af to see people acting like that especially those who think they are being supportive to the lgbtq+ community by doing so. "I want to be a boy so i can find myself an uke/seme" "your face is so uke/seme-able" .please shut the fuck up.
it was a person who was spreading it on a social media, it wasn't me
I hate the fact that they think everybody who reads yaoi fetishizes it. And saying that authors (which most of them are women) fetishize gay people and think that it's okay.
First of all, no. I read it for the main plot and that's it. I also get ideas to write my own fanfiction in my own time.
it's dumb how they would try to educate you just because they assume that you fetish it.
not much to say about this but MAN WHEN TF IS THAT BITCH GOING TO LOSE! Dan has to leave him cus i see no development </3