
@bom_bom since I can't reply to you directly
No I'm not reading this with my eyes close, it's context clues hun. Inferences babe.
She leaves her family for him. We never learned why, we both have our own theories on that but he doesn't let her work and does things with money without telling her.
Narcissist and abusers look at ppl that crave love like lions look at gazelles. She was easy prey. You see how upset her parents looked at her decisions and she just wanted love.
She suggested to getting a job but he politely turns her down. He makes major financial decisions without telling her. Also Doyeon as kind as she is, is also incredibly neutral on things. We learn from her pov that she's nice sometimes because it's the easiest to deal with. She's not a Saint but someone that likes to avoid conflict but from others pov she's Mother Mary.
He straight up LEFT HER to these thug loan sharks that were going to not only assault her but sex traffic her and when he gets back he's just l, "My bad uwu" his whole personality is a misdirect.
Also, just cause someone is being nice or "kind" doesn't mean he's not abusive this is from the victims POV.