I NEED WELL WRITTEN MANHWA!!! no rape no sex(╯°Д °)╯╧╧
2024-03-28 01:29 marked
Have you commented: “not my cup of tea” or something along the lines of “people who read this are sick” or have you tried to point out how the trauma is not realistic because the bad guy isn't punished or that its offensive to trauma sufferers?
I’ve decided to reply to you here cos there are just too many out there to reply to.
I’ve read too many manga now where I've wondered why it was given such a low rating. Then I look at the comments & see these kinds of posts:
“Not my cup of tea”
You’re basically saying: “I have chosen this manga to read, which i clearly did WITHOUT looking at the summary or tabs or lists or other peoples comments. I clearly chose wrong”
Now choosing the wrong manga or wanting to try something new is fine. But when you rate that manga with 1 or 2 stars because because you disagree with the characters morals, you are affecting other people: the mangaka, editors/publishers, the translator & the reader. Who btw, even though they read or work on a manga, don't necessarily agree with its morals. I even came across a comments saying that they chose it for the front cover & then they admitted they made the wrong choice - but they still gave it 1 star!
Think of the best manga you've ever read, now imagine if a bunch of people came in, who knew they didn't like that genre, & read it. Now they are giving a decent piece of work 1 star, so people looking for a good read in that genre will never find it because they are looking for a good read - not something rated as low as 6.0.
“People who read this are sick”
Think before you post. Yes, some that are read about trauma for enjoyment, that’s their choice & the fact that you are judging them is bad enough. But then there are those like me, who seek out manga concerning trauma for a different reason & here’s where a nasty statement like that really becomes OFFENSIVE. I seek out bad trauma, because i have suffered bad trauma & it just makes me feel better. But it’s SO HARD to find good trauma due to the inaccurate ratings, so i’m felling a lot less fulfilled each time. Also if such a careless statement upset me, (an adult who’s gotten out of & moved on from the trauma & doing relatively ok) i can only imagine how it could hurt a young teen, who has or is going through the same trauma. They won’t necessarily realise that you are the one wrong & by calling the acts “sick”, they may instead think that makes them sick or gross for having these acts forced upon them. Just because your online is no reason to be stupid.
Lastly the offensive to the realism of trauma and therefore to those who have been through trauma because they didn't suffer repercussions like in the ‘real world’:
Im sure those reading such manga (18+) are only enough to know if it is a trigger for them, as they probably read reviews before the manga, and those who do continue to read are old enough to know its FICTION.
I was sexually abused at 5 (non-family member - at school), i was physically, mentally & financially abused throughout my life by my father, I was also mentally & physically abused by my sister. Now, clearly, i was more upset by your comment then the manga, because unlike your comment - the manga was FICTION. I would also like to mention that not a single one of the above people have had to suffer any repercussions, so clearly your first point is incorrect. I clearly don't find the manga offensive, but instead i find it therapeutic. In fact reading about trauma was suggested to me in therapy, so I'm obviously not the only one, but i might be to only one willing to speak up (having autism has allowed me to detach). I’ll add that, while watching a documentary, i learnt that 90% of women with mental/cognitive illness are sexually abused at least once & its very common with autism females because they don’t understand whats being done & will believe what the other party says. I was one of these and it was only through reading fiction that i realised it was wrong and decided to reveal it to my family (at the late age of 28- i'm 34 now) at which point the other sister (not the abuse one) revealed she was sexually abused too (in her 50s), the abuser is long dead & never suffered repercussions.
I’ve decided to reply to you here cos there are just too many out there to reply to.
I’ve read too many manga now where I've wondered why it was given such a low rating. Then I look at the comments & see these kinds of posts:
“Not my cup of tea”
You’re basically saying: “I have chosen this manga to read, which i clearly did WITHOUT looking at the summary or tabs or lists or other peoples comments. I clearly chose wrong”
Now choosing the wrong manga or wanting to try something new is fine. But when you rate that manga with 1 or 2 stars because because you disagree with the characters morals, you are affecting other people: the mangaka, editors/publishers, the translator & the reader. Who btw, even though they read or work on a manga, don't necessarily agree with its morals. I even came across a comments saying that they chose it for the front cover & then they admitted they made the wrong choice - but they still gave it 1 star!
Think of the best manga you've ever read, now imagine if a bunch of people came in, who knew they didn't like that genre, & read it. Now they are giving a decent piece of work 1 star, so people looking for a good read in that genre will never find it because they are looking for a good read - not something rated as low as 6.0.
“People who read this are sick”
Think before you post. Yes, some that are read about trauma for enjoyment, that’s their choice & the fact that you are judging them is bad enough. But then there are those like me, who seek out manga concerning trauma for a different reason & here’s where a nasty statement like that really becomes OFFENSIVE. I seek out bad trauma, because i have suffered bad trauma & it just makes me feel better. But it’s SO HARD to find good trauma due to the inaccurate ratings, so i’m felling a lot less fulfilled each time. Also if such a careless statement upset me, (an adult who’s gotten out of & moved on from the trauma & doing relatively ok) i can only imagine how it could hurt a young teen, who has or is going through the same trauma. They won’t necessarily realise that you are the one wrong & by calling the acts “sick”, they may instead think that makes them sick or gross for having these acts forced upon them. Just because your online is no reason to be stupid.
Lastly the offensive to the realism of trauma and therefore to those who have been through trauma because they didn't suffer repercussions like in the ‘real world’:
Im sure those reading such manga (18+) are only enough to know if it is a trigger for them, as they probably read reviews before the manga, and those who do continue to read are old enough to know its FICTION.
I was sexually abused at 5 (non-family member - at school), i was physically, mentally & financially abused throughout my life by my father, I was also mentally & physically abused by my sister. Now, clearly, i was more upset by your comment then the manga, because unlike your comment - the manga was FICTION. I would also like to mention that not a single one of the above people have had to suffer any repercussions, so clearly your first point is incorrect. I clearly don't find the manga offensive, but instead i find it therapeutic. In fact reading about trauma was suggested to me in therapy, so I'm obviously not the only one, but i might be to only one willing to speak up (having autism has allowed me to detach). I’ll add that, while watching a documentary, i learnt that 90% of women with mental/cognitive illness are sexually abused at least once & its very common with autism females because they don’t understand whats being done & will believe what the other party says. I was one of these and it was only through reading fiction that i realised it was wrong and decided to reveal it to my family (at the late age of 28- i'm 34 now) at which point the other sister (not the abuse one) revealed she was sexually abused too (in her 50s), the abuser is long dead & never suffered repercussions.
2020-08-02 08:44 marked
I NEED WELL WRITTEN MANHWA!!! no rape no sex(╯°Д °)╯╧╧