
Can you have sex with someone and not having any feeling before, during or after?? I just feel that when you do it with someone you'll eventually gain feelings after awhile

If you keep doing it, yes definitely for women. Not all women though. Men are built a lil different. Sex and love are separate for alot of men. A man can get attached to the sex, but still not love the woman. So a problem with Yaoi is that since it's mostly women who read it, we tend to attach our feelings to the characters. Which is also why people get mad at the Seme's for acting the way they act (cold) because they are the "man" in the relationship and the Uke's are often portrayed as the emotionally irrational at times "female" counterpart. Not all gay relationships have specific gender roles tho. Yet in most of these stories, there clearly are.
I think I just stopped breathing