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Bro as the person who put it in you’re supposed to make sure to take it out as part of aftercare. Take care of your bottom’s bottom.
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I was aware of medical malpractice but now there's fuck malpractice ah hell nah
Extreme indeed, i'm not taking my partner on a trip to the ER after a fuck, that's not the after care i have in mind. (no kink shame to anyone but the risks don't seem worth it to ME, anyone is obviously free to do whatever)
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So the bottom is STUPID-stupid. Got it.
Keep your head down and don’t get involved with the scariest guy in prison that EVERYONE warned you about. Easy right? Apparently that’s mission impossible for him.
He could’ve waited to hear out the guy and he wouldn’t be his sex toy, but he his act/talk first think/listen later personality fucked him over.
Gonna pass on this aggravating story about a stupid main character.
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I wonder if the people who are ok with the relationship are teenagers while the ones who aren’t are adults.
When I was a kid, I thought the relationships in Card Captor Sakura (between the elementary girl and her adult teacher) was “ok” because she was “mature for her age.” I agreed with Ariel when she wanted to give up her tail for land and a man.
When I was a teen, I thought relationships between teensxAdults was ok if the teen was “mature enough.”
In both cases it was always the younger one pursuing which made it feel ok. If it was the other way around it would have felt disgusting….
As an adult, kids and teens will/should never be “mature enough” for an adult relationship. Kids and teens should enjoy their childhood… they only have a few years for it. You’ll spend the last 3/4+ of your life as an adult and it’s so daunting.
To the people who say, “it’s just fiction! Stop ruining this for us!” How is anything being ruined by a comment you don’t have to care about? You don’t have to interact with everything. But also, people can apply critical thinking to the things they read and make commentary about literature. It’s literally what we did in our English classes. It doesn’t mean you like or dislike the story, you just dissect it and think about it. Like “Lolita” or the “Great Gatsby” or poems by Edgar Allen Poe.
Disagreeing with what characters do is normal. Do you think the people who read Killing Stalking agreed with the rape/murder/stalking/kidnapping/leg-breaking? Stating discomfort or dislike for a topic is not a personal attack.
This is a personal attack: To the people who say, “that’s too long I’m not going to read that. But you’re wrong.” It’s no wonder you think this relationship is ok at your age. I did when I was a kid. Hopefully you can apply your experiences and critical thinking when you’re older.
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Anyway.
I started reading this thinking it’d be a cute one sided crush and then there’s a time slip where he pursues the older one once he’s 18… I’m going to put this on pause till it’s either done or much further along as I am curious to see how it ends. (Does he go to jail for fucking a minor? or do they time skip because he promises to “wait” or whatever.)
Hell, I had crushes on older teens and adults as a kid. I think we all did and that’s why the kid’s crush is relatable. But we also understand it’s not appropriate on the older teen to reciprocate at this time.
I’m not looking for an argument. I’ll ignore inflammatory responses. Just typing out my thoughts on how a person’s age affects their perception of the things they read. Which is why you see people in the comments who are ok with this story’s development while others are not.
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Completely (ish) agree!!!! When I was a teen I thought "wow, she pulled a 20 something yr old in hs" now that I'm a 20 something I'm like "WHY WOULD A 20 SOMETHING BE INTO A HS?!?"
Like u said, a kid having a crush on someone older is (usually) innocent and typical, BUT THAT PERSON LIKING THEM BACK?!?!?! No. Even if he "waits for him" THATS STILL WRONG, it's practically grooming and BEING a pedo!!!!!
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Totally agree that actually waiting and liking a child is still wrong and creepy.
When I said “wait” I was thinking it’d be like, the older one thinks it’s a joke or doesn’t take the promise seriously and goes about their own life as normal. Maybe even separating completely since they go off to college and don’t see the kid anymore. Which is what usually happens in other BL where there’s a large age gap.
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If I was in a relationship with someone like Minato, everyone around me would be screaming to dump his ass. And I would long before anyone else told me to. The insane hot-cold nature, the constant running away the second they get upset, the stone walling… it’s not a healthy relationship. Toxic af. Shizuma is bad because he smiled (Minato only reacted at that point)? Because someone else made him happy? That’s actually insane if you think that you should be the sole source of happiness for your partner at all times.
Trauma is a reason but NEVER an excuse to treat the person you love like that. And I know this is fiction ladies and gents, but in real life. Please never never never let someone treat you badly because of their past. You deserve better.
People hating on Astina like she isn’t doing Terriod a huge service. Break up? Where’s he gonna go? Die?
Yeah it’s too bad she can’t give 100% of her heart to him but she’s literally doing everything else she can to keep him alive. Ya’ll treating that like that she isn’t trying to help.
this!! they are both experiencing an insane amount of trauma. she feels guilty over it all and he has no idea how to handle all of this. she feels responsible for him, and while it's clear she does love him her guilt is outweighing that rn. and he is so hurt he would rather shut her out than allow her to properly process. tbh he's preventing her from healing but not allowing her to stop taking on all the guilt
Thank you for this!!! I love you and OP!! So tired of all the misogynist comments as if Astina meant for all of this to happen. He's been giving me headaches.
exactly!! I love this one, it feels more realistic. so many stories will add traumatic scenarios just for "fun" but skip right past the reasons as to why it is traumatic! it is so odd to cast the blame solely on astina. she needs space to heal. to her the past is incredibly recent! same to terroid! idk why they expect her to just forget everything that happened to her so quickly. it would be an injustice to the story and theo if she did!!
Yeah it’s like “ok come back and tell her she owes him love after your whole family’s been killed by your rapist, have to kill the man you love with your own hands, and then be expected to love again just because someone hot and kind loves you.”