
Guys obviously when sm is unconsicous he cant give consent and we shouldnt fck them but thats a yaoi and its romantisized not real life ...it is still not right tho

you do realize that it really depends on thw relationship right? Plus no one in their right mind read this and went “oh my, ill definitely fuck my partner when theyre asleep now, hell yeah. That is exactly what ill do.” it’s just, youre right, its important to recognize when there is blatant romantization of something as disgusting as sexual assault, but their whole relationship is based off of consent, theyre BDSM partners ffs, they know more about consent than your average person. After reading an entire story and getting to know the characters, why are you suddenly taking that scene out of the context of their relationship? Cant you assume that they have spoken about this before and that they have communicated that theyre okay with it? True the author could have included a seperate panel where he said he was okay being taken while asleep, but the way yall word things and interpret things are such a stretch, you may not be okay with it but why are you speaking for a different kind of person. And its literally “BL”, yaoi is an inaccurate and out of date term

I know i used the world yaoi cause it seemed more accurate but i wont i get it also its fictional characters so we dont need to stretch it so much about the level of consent and trust cause they are NOT real but i wanted to say in REAL life it would be problematic so noone can be confused or think that its okay...thats for the kinda response i really enjoyed your viewpoint

I understand that he was never loved or doesnt know how to show his feelings but join deseves sm who can communicate with him and understand what he needs amd yahwi just cant and we saw that multiple times and how join is hurt by the way yahwi expresses love, its just not enough and join and yahwi deserve better
Thank y sooo much for the update i hope your day goes perfectly