I don't really like the girl with the shitty ex. She kept like projecting her trauma on other people. If she did it like one or two times its fine but then she became quite annoying. I know you went through something traumatic and you're just looking out for people but projecting your trauma on random people is stupid. For exp, if I saw a girl hiding and watching me (when we met for the first time) when she's with her boyfriend. I might just assume she's shy, but this girl is like "eww that's some icky behaviour" bro tf??? That's your intital thought? My god smh and plus her calling the other dude a monkey every single time is quite harsh. Okay, maybe I'm a snowflake for the last thing but hey the dude is still a person with feelings.