Kawaii_meinu's Topics (82)

I hope u can at least empathize with the idea that (1) ppl can be caught off guard by a heated situation and don’t necessarily have comebacks on the ready, esp when they’ve been fortunate enough to have mostly accepting or blissfully ignorant ppl around and are not used to such a hostile reaction to their relationship (2) that Kirishima could have hesitated out of fewr making things worse or stepping out of line since it isn’t his family in the first place, esp when Toudou was alresdy insistent on leaving, and (3) that queer ppl don’t necessarily have to dwell on ALL “things involved” in their relationship, esp ones that are as pressuring, heteronormative, or as far down the line as having children. Being queer is hard enough on its own, let them enjoy their relationship without the constant worry, or without having everything figured out. That’s not half-assing.

I know this is… a silly thing to send a long mssg over since it’s just fiction, but this experience is very real for a lot of queer folks out there. I.. hope your hostility towards Kirishima remains here, just as a work of fiction. I hope you’re more empathetic to real queer people you might meet who are going thru a similar circumstance

Actually I am gay and that is why this was pissing me off. I have seen multiple people within my social circle get into queer relationships without thinking much about it and then when reality hits that they might not be as accepted as they would be in a heterosexual relationship, they either cheat on their partner or break up with them. I have been fortunate enough to not have experienced this with a partner but I have seen the amount of hurt it causes people when you start dating a gay person without thinking it through. Gay people are not just for experimenting with your sexuality (even though I am saying "your", I am actually referring to the people who engage in this sort of behaviour and not to you as the commentor)

I know that it is hard to think about these things but if you don't think about them beforehand and later on realise that this is not something you can handle, it can be even more painful. Many of the times it is more painful for the other party, though of course I know that is not always the case.

Also regarding the hesitation, I get that he may not have been prepared in a heated situation but since he was able to reassure the mother earlier regarding his will to make her son happy, right now his hesitation seemed to make him look kind of uncertain. I also think that when you know you partner's parents have been a cause for his suffering throughout his life, then you should have defended him or your relationship at least a little bit. There are multiple respectful ways to do so. Though of course this last part stems from my personal ideologies

YES

Also what is he talking about "I won't make the same mistake again" shit's pissing me offfffff

Some authors like to leave things to be read between the lines! I have a pretty solid idea of what’s going on, but I’m certain it will be resolved eventually.

If it’s gonna be riddled with cliches -That woman might make a comeback and be soap opera character towards Ai, it’ll probably end as a passionate confession that CEO will overhear lol

The woman at the grave (speculated) her friend or sis…

Sorry guys I didn't realise that there was a third volume. Shouldn't have spoken too early. I will reserve my judgement for the end of the series

1. Hideaki is Okumi. It's his first name.

2. Uchida and Saeki ((who you mistook for Okumi)) are dating.

3. The woman at the grave was probably the sister of the deceased wife. She's speaking from an outsider's perspective so to her it looked like Okumi never loved his wife before she passed. Imho she's just being a self-righteous cunt who is using the loss of a loved one to be a bitch.

4. Okumi was speaking about how he has had issues with being open about how he feels. His inability to express that although he tends to like men more often than women he *did* eventually come to love his wife-- albeit a lil too late. He probably never got the chance to tell her since her disease cut her life awfully short.

Take a chill pill and maybe do a quick reread the next time you decide to get all in a tissy over something you don't understand.

Are you slow? Or are you unable to follow your own advice?? Did you not see that I just don't like the cliche dead wife trope no matter if he has intimacy issues or not?? And whatever you are talking about is just based on assumptions so please keep your interpretations to yourself if you wanna be a little b*tch about it.

Also I did apologise when I realised there was going to be a 3rd volume but maybe you didn't see that. Not surprising even though you go around telling people to reread things but I digress. He "probably" never got to tell her. Yeah that's the part that I want more clarity about. When did they realise she was going to die. Did he realise after she was gone or before?? Usually in mangas there is more backstory given to such issues (again I didn't know that there was going to be a third volume and I apologised)