Lolikiano's Topics (124)

Have you ever been in the situation yourself? Trying to let go of someone you loved for so many years? Or risk eveeerything else in your life to keep that person? It's easy for you (an outsider) to be logical and say that, but there are a lot of people who aren't strong enough to do it.

Then you and I are on the same page.

Lolikiano said "oh come on I have no doubt that anyone could make better decision than this two makes." and I wanted to point out that it's not that easy to just make a "better decision". In the manga we only get to see the "couple" struggle (if I can call it that) a few months? As you just said, it was many years for you! And yes, you still love him sometimes, because that is how real love works I'm afraid, but you know today that you are stronger and desevers someone who loves you for you. I had a similiar experience and it took us years to make a better decision for the both of us and then leave. So if I understood Lolikiano right, then yes someone might make a better decision for themselves but there are a lot of people who would struggle to do so, and that was my point.

Bruh, are you trying to justify/sympathise with... cheating? As if there's layers to it, and the people engaging in it are not deplorable human beings who don't care if their actual wife/gf gets hurt because of them being """"indecisive""""? It's actually not as difficult as you make it out to be to cut off people/tell them the truth because the lie will hurt them even more, a lot of us (including me) have done it. Yes, there has been an instance where I cared for someone else, but y'know what I did instead of cheating physically/emotionally? Took some time to think and then broke up. It's a difficult decision, but life is not easy and I'm not a toddler. Sometimes you fall out of love an that's okay, just cleanly end it there. If you can't, That Is Your Fault. Stop trying to deflect responsibility and pitying yourself. It's an awful look. Boo hoo, Lolikano can cry me a fucking river. Unless the partner was stuck in an abusive relationship, there's like what 0 excuses to understand cheaters?

My point was that they obviously love each other and are miserable when they are a part but they aren't doing anything about it they're just stuck in one place not even trying to make any type of decisio. they are making thing more difficult and complicated than they actually are even if the decision they have to make is very hard I think that everyone can agree with that this kind of relationship is very unhealthy for them and they have two options ether move on or break off the engagement and like Atrisa777 said i had a choice here to follow my heart or make a damn choice to save myself.
Of course I don't justify cheating if you're going to cheat just broke up

Right? I don't get why they are making such a fuss about it what's there to debate about he obviously should divorce his wife.

No!! They are most likely going to show them growing up, and expand on Haris romance and so on, there is so much more of this story to tell!!