
Maybe its just me but I really wish the tags were more accurate :( there's so many good stories that have certain aspects that get overlooked or its hard to tell they include smth bc all the tags are always "waiting for more ch!!" Or "" like what even is that maybe i just need to familiarize myself more with the tag navigation system but I fr can never find anything (even smth i know exists) via tags it js feels like sm wasted potential

How do you guys deal with the idea of growing up and the future? I know we are all from different places, so im wondering how existential dread is treated in other places lol

i used to loathe the idea of growing too old, but then I realised its literally such a privilege. u see children dying in war & only then do u realise we're lit lucky as fuck to even witness ourselves change over time. to see ur friends, family grow old together w u. its something to be grateful about imo

Where I am from there is a constant changing reality. It's hard, but you learn from it that it isn't worth worrying about everything that much.
Nothing is set in stone. Your plans can get "ruined". They can change. Whichever future you are imagining will probably not be anything like what will actually happen. And that is not a bad thing!
Don't waste your life suffering inside your head. Live in the present, make choices that you think will lead you to good places and you will do alright.
There is no one way to grow up, it just happens along the way.

I CANNOT believe honey trouble is getting this much hate. Seriously, I thought it was good in comparison to other bland and flat yaoi on here. It's like as soon as something other than the stereotypical love triangle happens (mind you, a kidnapping background is still super basic,) it's like people cant digest it. It's so frustrating. They've even gone so far as to leave hate and death threats to the author on Twitter its just so ridiculous. No wonder no one fucking likes us.

Do u guys know any like tragic BLs like one of them gotta die or something

my the three faves of all time aaa
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/december_rain/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/the_specific_heat_capacity_of_love/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/haruka_tooki_ie/
and these https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/not_blossom/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/perfect_appearance/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/10_years_where_i_loved_you_the_most/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/shinju_bl/
you prob already read/know banana fish esp mdzs right? haha.

Hi guys :3
I've been like tearing myself apart for a long time now. I desperately need advice! I met "Jayce" my 2nd year of high school, we became friends and quickly got very close. We survived the fallout of a toxic friend group and we bonded over interests and childhoods and whatnot. However, during our 3rd year of highschool we grew even closer together as he was by my side when my mom developed terminal cancer. During this vulnerable time he and I kissed and while I initially rejected a real relationship, he insisted that we were already practically a couple and dating wouldn't be thay different. I wasn't happy during the relationship, I tried to break up with him every time we had an argument (basically every month lol) and i eventually broke up w him after a year and a half of dating. During the time we dated he became kind of obsessive and that caused me to feel trapped and I made some terrible decisions. I had a close friend who I was very open with that I wasn't in love with him, I actually had a thinh for his friend (i know, I know, I'm a terrible person!) And Jayce found out by reading my messages with my friend and I. The problem here is that despite the fact that I broke up with him in July, it's December and he still calls me his wife and his love and honey and whatnot. I feel bad, I want to set boundaries so badly but he's the type of person to beg you not to leave him. He's never had a real friend last more than a couple of months (that's one of the reasons he and I bonded because we both felt like outcasts.) He constantly talks about having kids and moving in together and getting married but i just can't bring myself to cut him completely out of my life. I've met his family, they know me by name, I have a key to their house !!! I feel like I'm so far into this lie that I can't possibly find a way out of this other than marrying him and divorcing him a year into it. I am not happy with him, we have different life goals, different ambitions, different work ethics, we might have good chemistry as friends but we just don't work out as a couple and I'm just afraid we don't have a real future together. The more and more I think about it, the more im okay just with just settling in and marrying him but we're just so different. I need help !!! How do I detach from him ?? What do i even do?

I’m sorry I’m really sorry but all I can picture is Jayce from arcane honestly no matter how scary or hard it may seem, its just best to get over with it and tell the truth that you don’t want to be together anymore, if you don’t, you could start feeling so repressed and unhappy that you become depressed and then mental health decline and… you probably don’t want that, so I suggest just doing what you have to and get away from him.
Like many genres (even with the many subgenres), I was wondering if there's such a thing as yaoi/bl classics. Do you guys have like a top 5 or 10 "classics" for BL? Are we at a point where we can even name any?
Bj Alex was so shit but it changed the yaoi scene forever
Blood bank
Here U Are
19 days
Sekaiichi Hatsukoi & Junjou romantica
Any work from Harada
Japanese:
Sekaiichi Hatsukoi & Junjou Romantica
Love Stage
Honto Yajuu ( All Yamamoto works)
Hidoku Shinaide
Doukyusei
Okane Ga Nai
Korean:
Blood Bank
King’s Maker
Lover Boy
Killing Stalking (controversial)
Royal Servant
Fools, Love or Hate
Love is an illusion
When you first get into bl anime your hit with , love stage , Yuri on ice , doukyusei , Sekaiichi Hatsukoi , Junjo Romantica: Pure Romance .
As for manwha.
Bj Alex , cherry blossoms after winter , sign , blood bank , love is an illusion, killing stalking , .
These where the big tops back when I got into bl and tbh I honestly don't know why , cause half of these are just r#pe and toxic . And made my youngerself delusional.
Potn, bj alex, cbaw, love is an illusion
They were everywhere back then
tbh Bj Alex ruled yaoi at one point
History was made fr fr
It was such a turning point it should be taught in schools