
How do you guys deal with the idea of growing up and the future? I know we are all from different places, so im wondering how existential dread is treated in other places lol
i used to loathe the idea of growing too old, but then I realised its literally such a privilege. u see children dying in war & only then do u realise we're lit lucky as fuck to even witness ourselves change over time. to see ur friends, family grow old together w u. its something to be grateful about imo
Where I am from there is a constant changing reality. It's hard, but you learn from it that it isn't worth worrying about everything that much.
Nothing is set in stone. Your plans can get "ruined". They can change. Whichever future you are imagining will probably not be anything like what will actually happen. And that is not a bad thing!
Don't waste your life suffering inside your head. Live in the present, make choices that you think will lead you to good places and you will do alright.
There is no one way to grow up, it just happens along the way.
I've never been so early to something