Yeah after reading all of this it kind of basically confirmed it for me that both of the main characters are autistic with different levels of masking on the spectrum. Or at least ML has some kind of neurodivergence that causes anxiety and other social deficits. FL can't mask well at all so she was diagnosed early but ML can mask well enough for other ppl to write him off as just weird or awkward. But they can both relate to each other and think similarly enough that they tolerate and understand each other. Say what you want but no neurotypical is gonna put up with either of them.
Genuinely enjoyed this from start to end so idk why this is rated so lowly. It was cute, the characters felt believable while not killing us with backstory and even more kudos for RuPaul bc bitch was that Shangela and Alexis Mateo's??? Like author def watches the show