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Ok so I’ll admit, it’s cute, but I have one GIANT issue. I genuinely don’t believe the author had a single normal relationships with anyone, and I’m not talking dating wise. Like sure they characters are cute but they all have really bad trauma that whenever it comes up they have meltdowns and then it’s never brought up again. For example, the one that pisses me off the most is the main character’s. His trauma is being mistaken as a girl because he’s feminine, which at first was fine. But then all of a sudden he’d be like “that guy asked me out cuz he thought I was a girl so I’m gonna kill myself” which, wow. As someone who’s been suicidal before it kinda pisses me off that it’s like that. I also love the relationship between the mc and his best friend, until that was ruined by the mc’s trauma (not the suicidal thoughts), where the best friend got mad at mc for doing something out of his comfort zone and the mc started begging the best friend for forgiveness like he was trying to stop the bf from killing his loved one, like it gave me major stolkholm syndrome. I know his trauma is something about injuring his bf on accident but to go that far for something completely unrelated? Like sure act that way for something similar, but one that was a long time ago (so it wouldn’t hit as big) and it wasn’t related (I don’t think). Another thing is the female lead’s best friend’s trauma. When it was revealed, she started acting like if the mc told the female lead, then the female lead’s friend would murder him, despite them being friends. Her trauma was something that didn’t need to be that extreme. Honestly I think the story would be so much better without the trauma, it’s starting to get on my nerves and it’s ruining the relationships in general, especially since the story of focusing more on relationships (not just romantic) than trauma like Jesus Christ, take it down a notch with the sad backstories, I’m starting to hate this comic because of it

Other than the unnecessarily bad trauma, the other thing I hate is the fact the female lead just doesn’t like the male lead. Like okay, so just for reference, let’s say, like, 20 chapters in the mc confesses and starts dating the female lead. Right after the female lead says she has no interest in dating anyone. 80+ chapters in and she still says how much she’s just not interested in anyone in that way. She’s dating him why then? She doesn’t like him or anything like that, says she doesn’t, yet she’s dating him. You’d think she’d do it cuz she doesn’t have the heart to say no (I thought so) but that’s also not true because he’s the first person she dated? Another thing is this was right after finding out he wasn’t a girl, and she doesn’t date girls. There’s no way that in that short time she got feelings for him, especially since he was cosplaying as a girl when he confessed. I’d be more convinced she started dating him cuz she thought he was a girl, but….
Anyway it’s been 80+ chapters and none of this has changed, like I’ve heard the same crap about the trauma and her not like him for so long now with no end in sight. At this rate the comic is going to be 700 chapters long seeing how each trauma is taking 100+ chapters and there’s no development in the romance other than “we’re dating!!!!” (Like genuinely, it was at first with the whole “I wanna go on a date but I don’t wanna bother her” and now we’re almost 90 chapters in and he’s still like “I wanna go on a date but I don’t wanna bother her” like Jesus, you’d think after even 30 chapters there’d be some romance development) im so close to dropping if this doesn’t change any time soon