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I thought I could change him. Firstly why would you need to change him? Is keeping him company while he grows as a person and slowly gets better not enough. Secondly that was a terrible move. Instead of talking it out with your partner and confirming if he's ready to take such a step or if it should be left behind, you drop the person into such a predicament. No wonder Inwoo said that you don't even know him. It's ok to try and help by using your life as an example but it's not ok to assume that everyone's experiences are going to be solved by the same text book example.