immediately switches to younger, also notes that karina couldn't last is a misogyny thing
a she isn't grown and b his is saying it doesn't matter that she is hurting
he says he cares, but he isn't. he doesn't have to give up stuff 4 younger siblings karina is young
minimizing self- also note, her older brother doesn't have to do this even though he is an older sib
she feels like burden because of disability, but the reality is ppl around her are abusive ableists
