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Why do I feel like the top intentionally acts mean to the bottom? Like how his words contradict his actions. His words are rude and insulting but the man even gave him a head and a foreplay, like it seems he said bad words to cover up his sweet(?) actions? I mean, he doesn't have to do all that at all. He can just be the same asshole guy back in the states, just fuck and leave but the man made sure the bottom feels good. Why?

This is just a guess anyway. I feel like the top may be being petty like taking revenge on the bottom by acting like a tsundere or maybe he already loves him but he didn't realize it. Anyway, what I want to say is, he's still the same asshole but he's more considerate about the bottom now since he became a father