this trope of characters being in a relationship w a bi/pan person and assuming that bi/pan people are more likely to be cheaters is so damn harmful. bisexual and pansexual people ARE HUMANS, if they fucking cheat, it's because they are scum and a shitty person, not bc of their sexuality. it's infuriating seeing this trope so common in mangas where they're constantly doubted abt their faithfulness for the fact that they like multiple genders.
EXACTLY LIKE THE ‘my boyfriend also likes girls so ig he’ll cheat on me with another girl bc theres no way a person could fully like two genders and commit to a relationship if they do :’|’ like uhm???? yes. yes we can. it also gives the feeling of the thought that since bi people like two genders they cannot love one significant other fully. again yes. yes we can
It's actually a common fear in the gay community. I once dated a girl that was cautious with me 'cos I was bi ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭ I think being unfaithful or breaking up is something that happens despite your sexual orentation but I guess they feel you'll follow the "heternormative path" 'cos it's easier.
Tho I don't think the problem is with being bi or pan, more like the "straight bend" 'cos they believe they'll "experiment" with them and leave them to get back on the "straight path" eventually (sthg that actually happens a lot).
I feel like he hasn't really done anything wrong besides being creepy, like hanhoo kills people mercilessly, so u can't rly be too harsh on the brother if u like hanhoo. he's just a little off but so far he's just patched up chansool, which is v kind of him. who knows if he has ulterior motives but like he and hanhoo are like v similar in many ways.
spoiler ish (just my thoughts tho)
I'm p sure nan jue has been lying all this time abt the whole image thing and just used it so he could escape his abusive ex. i have a feeling the climax episodes are going to be v emotional bc qi shi, who's practically in love w nan jue, is going to feel hella hurt to learn he was being used. I really excited for was the final episodes bc even I feel a little hurt rn :'(
one thing I really hate abt these sorta manhwas is that they always depict the female leads as this badass who doesn't need no man, and then everything suddenly changes for the ml???? if u were going to make her fall nose deep 2 days after meeting him, why make her character this way in the first place??? the story is still good and the ml is cute so I'm not complaining, it's just an annoying pattern Ive observed.
honestly both of them annoying asf. I know y'all gonna come for me but at the ripe age of 20 whatever, none of them can properly say ANYTHING without hurting the other person. y'all grown ass adults and one can't deal with rejection and the other can't deal with an erection. bye
its what makes this story very entertaining. come on if sangwoo knew how to deal with sexual attraction and jaeyoung wasnt a jerk, this wouldnt be interesting and would just be like any other bl ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭