yall i read the ENTIRE series and
1. no character development whatsoever
2. personally the sex scenes feel a bit r*pey to me- the way midori says no or stop and the seme keeps going gives me the ick. i do understand that the author wanted to make the uke super submissive but still doesn't sit right with me
3. there is absolutely no communication between
I totally understand where you're coming from... but after reading the whole series more than once I noticed more. Kaji doesn't communicate well (certainly not with words) but he does have some character development and he does tell Midori whatever he wants to know - Midori just misunderstands him, a lot. Midori doesn't communicate well, but he got a bit better at it as the series went...
The sex scene do have that feel to me as well. From everything I've read, it seems quite common (in yaoi and shojou) for the one to say "no", "stop", and "don't" even when they totally want it/initiate it. I think this series just didn't express that concept very well.
can we please just have ONE bdsm story that has a caring and sweet dom????? like this gives bdsm such a bad rep
I have read a lot with sweet doms maybe your looking in the wrong place. I reccomend Hardcore Vanilla[femdom] or Blood Bank[Yaoi] the main couples pratice bdsm correctly with safe words and aftercare.
NAH FR THO ! I’m so sick and tired of the “asshole femdom” trope that authors love to put into these kinds of stories for some reason. It makes femdoms and bdsm look bad, and it’s just not satisfying to read. I honestly don’t know what was going through the author’s head while they were writing this...
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/the_bond_that_ties_us/
nah that one is really annoying i had to drop it. the dom does absolutely no research and traumatized the sub multiple times despite having a really popular bdsm blog. also the sub doesn’t know what to do as a sub, which in his case is understandable considering his trauma, but youd think he’d do research now that he’s actually in the scene. idk everything about that one just made me mad.