Cate's Topics (41)

Yeaah, same thoughts!

Hes a sub that needs a dom to take control and remove the stress he is feeling and free him. He finally realized that a took control and by doing that relieved the stress and anxiety he was feeling relaxing him and mellowing him out . Everyone needs discipline and correction once in a while.

Bro. Chowon literally told him “I hate you like 3 times”...do yk how many oceans I’d be sobbing if my boyfriend ever seriously told me that likehate is a very strong word:’)

Honestly I used to love this guy to the point where when he pisses me off or I get frustrated I'd just go "I hate you, I hate you I so fucking you" with tears and a racing heart,the more I love someone the easier it is for me to say smth like "i hate you" without worrying that they'll take it to heart cuz they know how I actually feel bout em

Nope he's stressed and acting out. He often says crap but doesn't actually mean it to him. Chowon manipulates everyone and he finally caught on to all his plays. Yelling, pretend crying(cause he knows that it affects him and he can manipulate the situation) he finally has someone that won't fall for his fake crap and can spar on one with him and its a fair game.

And that is not ok, especially when you’re upset. This is so fucked up man, «  the more I love someone the easier it is to say « I hate you », like

Yes but he also said « I can’t, I was born like this, blah blah ». He’s also putting too much pressure on himself if he expects to get better overnight. But he also shouldn’t give up just because it takes time to get better.

Words have little value to chowon, and actions get his attention and mean more. He has been pushed and controlled by his family his whole life, he has very little trust in people. He takes his frustration out on people around him.

Then you obviously don't know how a BDSM relationship works. No offense, but you're an idiot lol

Yes exactly

i can very much relate and agree to this ;-;