Zhenzhu January 21, 2025 6:09 pm

So I do agree with the people saying "why are you bashing hear abd calling her toxic and a creep and insecure. You know nothing about mental health and only support it to your convenience and when it's sad" and while I do agree to some extent, I still also think that just because she's suffering from mental illness doesn't mean it's not a toxic behavior. Yeah it's not right to feed into the stigma of calling her a creep and a loser, but she IS being toxic and her mental illness doesn't negate that and absolve it. Toxic people do toxic shit because they're unwell. If you think an asshole or a bully does bad shit because they're born evil then that's a skewed pov of the world where only the victims get to be "unwell" while the preparators get to be demons with grand intention.

It's good to be a mental awareness advocate, but that doesn't equal enabling

I pity her and the turmoil and pain she causes herself first and foremost (i truly think she'll self sabotage and cheat on him thinking hr alr did that only to realize she became the one thing she's been so scared of), but I genuinely feel uncomfortable reading this and reading the slow descent into greater depths of derangement. Idk it's not that I'm not empathizing. Having BPD makes me all too aware of fear of abandonment and going through extreme lengths like that, but something about HER and her thought process just makes me dislike her.

    Zhenzhu January 21, 2025 6:12 pm

    I guess because rather than internalizing that fear and panic, directing it mostly towards herself (which would make it more self destructive) she's externalizing it by demonizing her bf.. IDK something about the way she rationalizes her thoughts makes me angry

    Zhenzhu January 21, 2025 6:14 pm

    Not that I'm saying she should internalize it or shouldn't externalize it, I'm just trying to figure out which aspect of her unwellness makes me uneasy because the concept of jealousy and fear of abandonment and self-sabotaging and insecurity isn't exactly a novel idea and isn't one that deters me from enjoyment. It's just this specific girl for some reason.

Zhenzhu January 18, 2025 8:20 am

Good thing she didn't end up with Joseph

Now he's free for me to have ^^

Zhenzhu January 16, 2025 1:50 pm

I can't even hate at this point, you chose the man leewon There's no way any of us can get angry when you're the one who's telling us gwenchanaa gwenchanaa

    meH January 16, 2025 2:20 pm

    Does anyone even understand WHY Leewon fell in love w Caesar?? I truly don't get it

Zhenzhu January 10, 2025 9:42 pm

He's like Cinderella with her mice

Zhenzhu January 9, 2025 6:09 pm

Treat this as a oldest son support button

I love them all but the lack of oldest son love is sad his story is so cute it's just mature. He's such a golden retriever boyfriend AAA like if I ever wanna settle down that's the kind of man I want. Yeri you better know how to fight

Zhenzhu December 22, 2024 2:01 pm

I understand why everyone is bored and don't like the second story much, but I actually love it a lot. The mc is insufferable and stupid, yes, but that's because you're viewing this whole thing from afar. I regard this new story as another metaphor for the human behavior. As a previous comment had pointed out, it's like the stories are about the seven deadly sins, and this one is about greed.

Had you had the opportunity to have all your wish come true just by yapping about some sad thing that happened to you before, believe me we'd all be lined to wish. Then once we get one wish fulfilled, we'll wish bigger and bigger. It's human nature to never be satisfied because we always want more, it's just some are better at controlling their greed than others.

This plot is about how even when you reach perfection, you still want more, and how this can ruin someone's life by never being content with what they have, or at least knowing when to stop running for perfection any longer. A lot of people sought out this manhwa for the vibes and aesthetic of the first plot (me included) that the second one feels annoying to them with how excessive and childish the vibes are, but that's literally the whole point of it. The dreamy oversaturated effect, the sea, the island, the icecream and candy, it was meant to highlight the la la land perfection theme. You just need to accept this is not a single story and they all won't necessarily feel the same, but the delivery of a philosophical and psychological topic is the essence.

Zhenzhu December 21, 2024 5:50 am

Started punching the air.

This is for everyone who called me heartless when I said meeting his mother would help and that's why Jiho was doing what he did (albeit he fucked up a bit in the process) and they said he doesn't need to meet her to heal he just wants someone understanding by his side yada yada yada

Being proven right is such a sweet sensation. I know not every case is similar to the other and what works for someone doesn't necessarily work for the other but I fucking knew Inwoo's problem needed that kind of solution as a first step I'm so glad this is taking this direction now.

    Jelly Monster December 21, 2024 8:05 am

    Agreed. I was yelling about Jiho previously because of how he decided to forcefully tackle the issue. It needed to come willingly from Inwoo because at the end of the day, if Inwoo hadn't accepted it then it'd have been a fruitless attempt, no matter how good Jiho's intentions. But that did implant the idea of the possible solution in Inwoo's head, so all's well that ends well.

    Mika December 21, 2024 5:03 pm

    Sameeee

Zhenzhu December 13, 2024 11:04 am

Stay *fencing man* the *fencing man* fuck *fencing man* away

Zhenzhu December 4, 2024 7:55 pm

GEONMOO I'M DYINGGGG

Zhenzhu November 23, 2024 1:30 pm

I know many of you are mad that things seem eerily normal now like the fl and ml didn't fuck up each other and their kids for MANY chapters only to suddenly get back together in a weird change of heart (ok tbf mostly from the fl, Wilhelm had always been consistent I'll give him that)

But hear me out....

I'm just enjoying the domesticity now and conveniently and blissfully ignoring whatever happened before because there's no use being angry anymore. I'm just so happy Billroy is happy like this cutie patotie deserves happiness and if his happiness comes at the price of my blood pressure then it's fine I'll endure the shitty manhwa earlier and the way it was weirdly resolved if it means that kid can smile and laugh and have a normal childhood with semi decent parents.

Go have a dozen of kids for all I care as long as you take care of them all from this moment on. Only then I'll gladly turn a blind eye to whatever shit happened before good for them i guess at least it didn't have an even shitier ending

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