
I mean i don't see it as cheating, they never had the talk or ever asked about the relationship status so technically not cheating however me and my ex now did the same thing. We never asked each other out. One day we said we loved each other as friends next we were saying it in a romantic way. We was going out but never asked each other until we argued and broke up lol only to later ask to get back together and officially ask the other to be in a relationship. So I can say he didn cheat but if my ex who was my bf at the time did that to me i would be heartbroken as hell.

See i tried to be spontaneous once and wen we got to the good part a massive mosquito raised out of the very bush we was next too. I said Nope. Looked at it again and said Nope. Slapped my bf dick away fixed my dress. Said nope and left. That mosquito was callin dibs on sucking one of us, and it wasn't gonna be me. I do no threesomes.
I cant feel sorry for him. I mean nobody shud lose a love one but his obsession with hurting the older brother was sick. I believe in karma. And him hurting his brother to the point where he keeps trying to die and wants to die and breaking him with his twisted form of love he brought karma back around for him. He doesnt care for himself so to hurt him the pain has to happen outside of himself. He deserves having his life falling apart. I can't feel sympathy for a rapist. Im not conflicted, i dont have any doubts. I hate him. He needs to get some fuckin help and leave his bro alone. Also regards to the mother she shud have said something if she suspected it. Could have gotten help for him instead of chasing after him. I cant give her a pass either because a mother protects her kids even from one of her own. The older brother i sympathize so much for. His very behaviour was screaming for help and nobody realized it. He basically was drowning and no one cared he was dying. My heart breaks for him. He needs counseling and time to heal his wounds and mind. He needs space and to take it easy so he can become stronger and have a better frame of mind. I want him to find happiness.
You are absolutely right. I couldn't say it better.
Yeah i seen so many ppl feeling sorry or conflicted/confused because the younger bro life is falling apart. Just no, he didnt care wen he took his brother life apart and ruined his chances of happiness but now that he is gettin a bloody taste of what misery taste like im supposed to feel sympathy? Hell no. He needs to be pushed to the edge like his brother was! He wud never have my sympathy. He's a psycho and needs to stay away from his older brother. I couldn't believe ppl was ready to give him a pass and feel bad for him!
What gets me is how much hate Hanabusa gets and it's like yes he fucked up but then the other guy?? He's an actual rapist ya'll. And still people feel bad for him. Idc what happened in his past: he is raping somebody, acknowledging what he is doing, knowing it is destroying him, and doing it anyway.
Exactly! I hate the dad too. If he really loved his son he'll see that his son is slowly dying! And the mother too. Really my heart broke when he said no one is really asking for the truth :(
Yeah hanabusa just screwed up because all he knew was he heard was haruki having sex and that he only did it to get away from the psycho. Granted just hearing that from haruki if i was in his shoes i would have stayed. Haruki showed fear when he told him that. So yeah hanbusa didnt think it through and was quick to be angry. But yeah the younger bro is fuckin crazy and ppl feeling bad for him is freakin weird cuz it clearly shows he knows that what he is doing is hurting/killing his bro and yet he continues to do it. So fuck him.
Mine did too! Like nobody choose to look deeper into his behavior. Like his whole attitide changed. He was angry, depressed and acted totally out of his norm and yal choose to believe its work related? And only work related? Like damn talk about being self absorbed if u cudnt see those obvious signs.