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They wrote him out the story.

Fr, its fun tbh .

I would say puberty, growing up, life sometimes block your vision in a way. It's diffrent for everyone but sometimes u just get stuck and moving on may be hard. Idk life's weird tbh

that depends on the situation that the person has been in. not every school life is picture perfect as it seems, esp when it comes problems such as bullying, having a financially unstable status, family problems, issues with one's self, etc.

it is a privilege after all, to be able to stay in school and learn at ease without worrying over other personal problems.

spWnkbang

How is it jihan’s fault?? istg y’all just hate MCs for no reason but never the MLs

And it’s even worse than we thought because he spiked his drinks and smokes to get him addicted without even knowing until he went into withdrawal bad enough to knowingly take drugs!!!!!

Right. It’s not a mental illness. It’s something every human had experienced maybe once a lifetime or more. I have had felt inferior to many people. Many poor feel inferior to rich, many non beauty standard feel inferior to those of standard. It’s something we can’t control having, but we can control our words and actions.

MC did good by telling the person he loves to go just so he doesn’t get hurt. I’m glad they talked it out.

"as long as it didn't make you do smthg bad" I mean, Tsutsumi literally cut off his years-long friendship with Mibu with no explanation and proceeded onto ghosting him for ten whole years, all because of his inferiority complex... and then tried to do the same thing again. How does this not classify as "something bad"? Like sure, we all feel envious and inferior every now and then, but this is as drastic of a measure as can possibly be, so to resolve this decade-long conflict with a single conversation feels a bit... too easy :v

I mean to hurt your romantic partner on purpose because of your inferiority.

Different levels of bad I guess. I just see being romantic partners are something intimate and vulnerable, so more hurtful if ghosted while together. Is how I see it. Sure it’s shitty to just ghost, but people will live—at least in this scenario. The problem is on MC, MC wasted time due to his own fear.

Best option would’ve been to communicate how he felt but it’s not so easy for some.

I agree with you about the resolution being too easy. It was fast paced, left a bitter taste. Everything is messy here. I think what I’m wondering about is what MC will do about his inferiority, not sure if he discussed about it further.

Sure, no "physical" pain was caused and they "will live," but in terms of a romantic relationship (which occurs in a romance story), ending a relationship with someone you love and ghosting for 10 years is a pretty nuclear action. And those ten years weren't enough for Tsutsumi to deal with his inferiority complex in any meaningful way, because he was completely ready and willing to do the same thing again to Mibu now, after reconnecting with him, sleeping with him, and telling him he loves him too. Is this not hurting your romantic partner?

This is why people in the comments say Tsutsumi needs therapy and that his complex is a lot deeper than what most people feel in their daily lives. They're not accusing Tsutsumi of being a bad person or something, but his issues in this regard are way too complicated to be resolved as easily as it was in a single scene. Especially since it was Mibu who had to "convince" him that he was actually happy when they were together... none of the resolution came from Tsutsumi himself, which makes it seem like it's only a matter of time before the issues resurface and they go through this whole song and dance again.

(also the MC (main character), Mibu, is not the one with an inferiority complex; that's the ML (main lead, as in romantic lead), Tsutsumi.)

Whoops I forgot since usually the bottoms are MC’s.
I’ll refer to as ML.

I think, everyone has their opinion. I just think nobody is obligated to stay even if they will be an asshole for that move, for whatever reason—if they don’t want to say, oh well. I dodged someone that wasn’t willing to talk, let them go, but MC reached out. ML WAS a bad friend for doing what he did. Never denied that.

MC and ML weren’t together until they met again (too many stories I’m reading so correct me if wrong). That’s why I said something about at least MC didn’t do the whole ghosting while together romantically. ML ghosted him after saying never mind to the sex. Unless you were just saying in general.

So glad I typed in notes app, I knew some error would try and delete half of my response. This happens too much. Other half of response:

2) I agree, IF they were together for some time and he had ghosted his partner for ten years, that’s a whole nother’ level of betrayal. As for therapy, to each their own. Some people with such issues or more complex like mental health will never go to therapy or try, and still live a good life. Some won’t.

BUT I’ve felt the way MC did, if not worse because I hurt my friend emotionally/verbally. I worked on it myself with some social support, didn’t need therapy. I prefer being around those I’ve already built something with, so therapy didn’t work. So my answer towards therapy might just be biased .

Again, to each their own. I wouldn’t be mad if the characters got therapy, something uncommon in BL lmao.

I just see his inferiority complex as something that can be worked on if HE helped himself with the support of another. This time, they talked. NEEDing therapy is not how I feel about therapy unless it’s seriously affecting your ability to respect boundaries, anger issue, etc.

Ending was rushed, we didn’t get to see how his inferiority was dealt with. Maybe it’ll always linger, maybe not. We didn’t see. I don’t expect much from BL…(feel free to recommend ones that involve therapy).

I am not sure why MC is holding onto ML, this kind of love is truly fictitious-like but I can vouch that many people hold on another even if hurt.

I didn’t say about physical. Hurt as in doing something on purpose to feel good about yourself because you feel inferior, IS what I meant. Sorry, I should have expanded. On me.