I hope that you know this behaviours are NOT ALRIGHT . What you could try to do :
- Try making a sign / note that you stick on front of the toilet when you're occupying it. Make sure it's BIG and OBVIOUS so there's no excuse for him not to know
- Avoid him as much as possible.
- If you can and are willing to, reject the money or any gifts he's...... reply
Happy belated birthday!! I hope you're doing better now but if your not that's fine too :3 ur mum and other relatives were being little b1tches and what they did was not okay. (I hope I can send you a gift or something but for obvious reasons I can't) So I just wish you know there's someone out here that knows u deserve a gift :)) reply