
I would like to read a threesome where they are all loved equally, for once, and not just two childish semes fighting over one girly uke. I don't like this "we'll put up with each other but only because we love you so much" kind of thing...
Does someone know about a manga like this?

This one kinda does, the uke and one of the semes start out hating each other, and both semes are friends. Still only one uke tho.
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/choco_strawberry_vanilla/

XD I understand that (but isn't 2 d*cks for one butt also a marathon for the uke?). Actually, i meant reversed roles, not the opposite situation... Generally speaking, i prefer a story about 2 (or in this case, 3) real guys together than one about one guy and a girl in a men's body. I mean, "uke" and "seme" are so unreallistic to me... Those "girlish uke/really manly seme" always remind me of something i read once, in which, to explain roles in gays relationships, they said: "look at those chopsticks: which is the fork, which is the knife?" It saddens me to realize that i sometimes forget something so natural, that i knew before i started reading yaoi: most homosexuals do both. Even though i love reading yaoi, i don't like all those clichés that i integrated so well that i applied them in real life. Maybe i wasn't careful enough in my reading choices?
Why are ukes often represented cute, small and teary, like cliché girls? Is it because yaoi is destined to girls? If i wanted to read a story about a guy and a girl, i would go read Josei. Are we supposed to identify in ukes roles? Well, i personally often identify better in seme's roles.
Sorry, i don't know if i really made my point... I often loose myself in long explanation and this late, my already poor vocabulary becomes worse! Well, like some says: To those who read, Pavé César!
Oh god XD
I think i would love to explain my culture to someone like this :D