Can someone please explain to me why people keep thinking yahwi raped jooin? basically he wanted it to happen, with all the dirty dreams and other shit. If jooin had told yahwi he didn't want to do it or so on yahwi would've have stopped- but how tf is it rape tho? Rape is like when that person doesn't want to do it with you but you don't listen and just force them to have sex with you- so how tf did someone come up with the idea, "yahwi raped jooin". ( no more comments please uwu )
of course you have that username... are we even reading the same story here? Go back to chapter 8, jooin clearly asked yahwi to stop since it feels weird, and let's not talk about the fact that jooin was under the influence of alcohol. He doesn't even remember that he had sex with yahwi. Even though jooin was having those dirty dreams about yahwi, he was STILL under the influence of alcohol. He was not thinking straight at all, and yahwi never asked for consent when he first had sex with jooin.
The real ship needed is Yahwi x Therapy 'cause that boy has some issues.
Also, Jooin doesn't have enough friends. Like, where are they??? A good ole friend, preferably one that isn't attracted to him.. Like a WLW (I will get my Yaoi/ Yuri story one day... Just you wait) friend to roast the crap out of Yahwi.
My username doesn't have to do with anything that is going on right now. and again yahwi didn't know, yes he was stupid and should've stopped but because jooin was having them dirty thoughts, yahwi thought it would be a great idea- and what does jooin not remembering having sex with yahwi have to do with anything right now? i could tell that Yahwi was going to tell him but he was probably too afraid to tell jooin because who knows, jooin might mad or start telling others about what happened.
Yes he was drunk and didn't know what was happening, but sexual pleasure is something we cannot control. I know yahwi would've said something by now but i could tell he was afraid to even explain to jooin about that day, and no shit- he wouldn't say no or yes he was drunk and confused. Everyone thinks if you get drunk and start doing these weird things to that person they'd think you want to have sex with them.
idrc what you guys say because y'all didn't think it was rape until cain came out of no where. All i care about is yahwi getting back with jooin and cain staying out of it. Yes i know "jooin was drunk- yahwi shouldn't have touched him" or whatever but i know yahwi didn't really mean it. He didn't do that just for fun.
If Yahwi cannot control his libido then he's not worth it for Jooin. I know that he's drunk also and he knows that Jooin is more wasted that him but if you're a person who doesn't need a therapy, you wouldn't do that. Even if you like that person, you need to control yourself. Even if Jooin is drunk, as long as he didn't say yes, that means NO. Don't normalise the "Silence means Yes" "He didn't say No, so I'll do that". Yes means yes, and No means No.
Rape means having sexual intercourse with someone who doesn't give you any consent. Gurl, you need to know that Rape means no consent to the person you're having sex with. Jooin didn't give any consent to Yahwi. Jooin is drunk and Yahwi knows that. Jooin is not saying YES so that it is a NO. Stop tolerating those kinds of things. Re-read Yours to claim again after you read what was the meaning of rape. Spread knowledge not hate.
Okay, i understand this.. the other comments are just too much, i just want yahwi and jooin going back together.. not because of the stupid "rape" shit or sex, i just feel bad for yahwi- i can tell he didn't mean it. I don't really recall it as rape- what i think rape is, is that, that person is being forced have sex or something like that- i know yahwi was an asshole he shouldn't have did that shit but i get very angry when my favorite character or person gets talked shit about for something stupid they didn't mean to do.
I hope I change your perspective about rape. Rape is just not about forcing someone to have sex. Rape is also meant that having sex with someone who doesn't give any consent. He or She didn't say YES to sexual intercourse then it is rape. Yahwi, he means to do that stupid shit, coz if he didn't mean it, he would have stopped.
literally WHAT are you talking about... you're literally trying to justify rape, so it was all okay because the other person was having dirty thoughts...? think about that for a second. Jooin NOT remembering that he had sex with Yahwi is a huge part of why it was rape. And tell me, when was Yahwi going to tell Jooin that he raped him? I get that you want Yahwi and Jooin to be together, but they're just not made for each other. Re-read this previous chapter and look back on how Yahwi was trying to guilt-trip Jooin into going back to him by saying everything must be so easy for him. AND Yahwi told Jooin that he likes him without even meaning it, he's just playing with his feelings. Really, Yahwi is insanely manipulative and toxic. They just don't belong together.
Also, he's manipulative too. He knows that Jooin likes him and used it to manipulate Jooin. Yahwi doesn't want to be lonely. He wants Jooin to stay by his side but pushes Jooin away. Like gurl he's confusing. That's the red flag. If a guy confused you, that's toxic. Well he's the end game (hard to accept and I wish he's not) so yeah I think there will be a chance that he will have a character development. (⊙…⊙ )
Oops didn't mean to comment here, I meant to make my own comment. With that said, Yahwi does need someone to go off on him. He's been just the biggest of Asses to Jooin. Jooin has been nothing but sweet and kind to him and he should be with someone that treats hime the same way or at the bare minimum show him respect.
Ok, Yahwi had a troubling childhood. EXPLAINS why he's a dick but it DOES NOT EXCUSE HIS BEHAVIOR. If I was Jooin's friend, I would've snapped at Yawhi the first time he was a douche bag to Jooin.
Now think about this. Are you excusing Yahwi's behavior because you genuinely like his character or because you think he's hot?
(And if consent is not given in any situation it's assault. And saying "But sexual pleasure is something we cannot control." Is so jacked up on so many levels. Like forget forget the debate of if Yahwi r@ped Jooin or not, that is just awful to say.)
1: Yes I like him he’s hot but that’s not why really- :P so like, When I first read this I was into jooin and yahwi being together and i stayed shipping jooin and yahwi but when Cain came out of no where- I was kinda into him because he was cute and he seemed more nice than yahwi but I still couldn’t give up the jooin x yahwi part- I want them to stay together like I didn’t want yahwi to get hurt or something like that or Cain stealing jooin away from him, but when yahwi started being an asshole I was kinda mad and almost gave up on him but I still had some believe that yahwi was going to fix all of this and actually care for jooin- that’s how much I love yahwi like I wouldn’t give up a character that did something stupid but also loves that person dearly. ( this isn’t part of what you said but ) yes I know everyone hates yahwi because he “raped” jooin and had been a big ass to him but at least he didn’t go off and like wasn’t going to think about jooin or other stupid shit. He actually came back to actually tell him how he actually feels. So right now I don’t really give a shit tbh ;P my head is thinking about ( CAIN X YAHWI ) like is there gonna be a plot twist or idfk what’s gonna happen but I just wanna enjoy the manga.
yeonwoo pisses me off- at least let keith actually be a better person while you're pregnant- but i guess keith deserved it.. so im not gonna get mad..
Idk i dont blame him he did get raped by keith which isnt cool and he has the choice to get rid of the baby since hes gonna be the mother im a little spilt since i get that keith wants to be the dad but i dont think he should really have rights to the child since he did him dirty like that. I mean personally if i was raped and neglected i wouldnt want the father to see the child because hes a piece of trash
this is like boku no pico but worse- why am i even here.