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since when did homophobia in a child become a trauma response? ikaw ata ang bobo bhie. Id understand if u said she was a child still growing up, but basic human decency is literally already engraved to us unless ure full of shit. I was already accepting during her age lol

im a queer person in a homophobic country and my bf didnt become accepting until he came to the city to work as he's from village ish place

homophobia can be a trauma response but not in THIS case what does her being neglected have to do with her being homophobic? would be more understandable if she was queer and she was overthinking their rs but no. And even if her being homophobic was a trauma response it still doesn't give her the right to set the ml up with random girls in the internet

Yes her childhood sucks and that's too bad for her. Her trauma does explain her way of thinking, but it doesn't give her the right to act like an asshole.

And her creating dating app accounts for a person in a relationship WITHOUT their consent is a huge fucking deal. Adding the fact that she's being homophobic

It’s not that she did something unforgivable, however in no way was it beneficial to both haebeom and ho, it was instead hurtful and disrespectful. But because of the fact that she grew up in a rural area with CLOSED MINDED beliefs, and a rough childhood, was her mind CLOSED OFF to the idea of so many things, one idea being queer relationships. I don’t see how we’re the closed minded ones when queer people are the ones having to show empathy and an OPEN MIND towards those who lack a positive view towards us, in order for us to be accepted—and because we’re AWARE that people from rural areas are less likely to be accepting..this is most likely what haebeom and ho will do in the next chapter. Maybe it’s you who should open your mind

There's always this guilty women defenders omg

wait are u saying im the one who should open my mind? im not even saying yall have a close mind, im just saying have a little empathy. The world is tough enough as it is

Im a queer person living in an extremely homophobic country, I am extremely paranoid whenever me and my ex when out as the punishment for queerness is stoning. I grew up alongside ppl like the girl (whatever her name is) even my family and they would throw around homophobic comments like hers.

But do I have to immediately throw them away because they're homophobic? They're still good ppl at heart. Just that they couldnt accept queer right now. But with time they will learn to accept queer. So instead of spending time getting angry at them for not accepting queer, I pitied them for having a close mind

By bashing on them they will get extremely defensive and reject that gay ppl exist. Like yall rn getting extremely defensive bcus im defending a fictional teen character

What??People have different experience gurl!! Let them do what they want, you don't want to hate on her then dont hate but why does it bother you when people are hating on her for what she did was literally hate deserved act . Does being queer mean all queer people having same opinion/experience like you ?? Do you think being positive about every shit will be any better?? And yes she's not teen, she's adult. Her age doesn't matter, leaving her brainrott opinion aside did she really had to sign in Mr. Kwon to dating apps without even his consent ? Homophobic aside she has the fuckin audacity to think world revolves around her .

Real life queer people can't do anything to those homophobic cunts even if they kill them someday but you are telling me they don't even have rights to bring down a homophobic bitch who is just a fictional character?? Wow!! Will your pity change their mindset? No! So let people do what they want, unless you think world revolves around you just like that gurl think it does!

Holon, you’re not the one I’m replying to tho, I’m replying to the person at the top. and I agree with what you’re saying? In order for our asses to be accepted in a homophobic country, aren’t we supposed to welcome people with open arms despite their closed minded way of thinking? I already said that the reason why some people are closed minded is due to personal experiences, the way they were raised, or personal beliefs from living in a rural area. Where in my comment did I say to throw her out for doing what she did?? I also already said that “ this is most likely what haebeom and ho will do in the next chapter” by this I mean confronting her in a way to make her understand that they’re happy being together, and understand why she saw them as abnormal AT FIRST. What can yall not understand. what she did was FORGIVABLE, it’s a common occurrence, all I’m saying is it was wrong either way and shouldn’t be tolerated/defended

"let's have a lil empathy" as if what she did wasn't an actual CRIME. fraud and impersonation?? Regardless of her stand point and reasoning or yours, she acted in her own accord based only by her beliefs, it's not as simple as, "I can't support you" but the fact that she doesn't see them as human enough to decide on what to do with their lives is something else, SOMETHING MORE THAN HER TRAUMA. She made the EFFORT to make dating accounts without their knowledge, that's literally taking someone's WHOLE IDENTITY and deciding for them while knowing that they're in a relationship.

She literally grew up in a small town with none young people on sight. It was a town full of old individuals, so y'all can't hate on her just because that's how her view is. They r not as open minded as other places okay,, do take note that the story take place in KOREA too where homophobia is evident in that country. They see it as something blasphemous and not normal. (Take this point at hand. I'm not explaining this to defend her. )

I'm not condoning and justifying what she did, all I'm saying is why r u being so hateful and hard on her enough to throw her some hate and hostility??? What she did was immature but it was not deserving of what u guys r doing. Matters like this can be deal with proper communication which is what exactly what they did in the last chapter.

Your comments r so over the board y'all. Tf.

Y'all putting words on my mouth. What I was trying to say was what she did is really detestable but it was not enough for u guys to be fucking cruel with your comments. What can't y'all understand with what I said? I just told u guys to be more open minded about the situation there and not just throw hostility like what other homophobic individual usually do with queer people.

Bla bla bla excuses excuses victim card victim card World revolves around me, it's their wish to hate on her. Who are you to stop people from hating a bitch??

Excuses Excuses, cry more. Bitch is a Bitch !!

Those dislikes lmao lol . Stop with the excuses lol ,she deserves hate it's her karma

what chapter is in the novel?