Xinxin's Questions (9)

Remember that there isn't a "right" way to grieve. You could consider memorializing your cat in a way that feels meaningful to you, like creating a photo album etc. in her memory. Remember, it's okay to ask for help and to seek comfort during this difficult time. （/TДT)/

my condolences to both ur cats

everyone grieves differently there is no right way to do it. it may be hella weird but it is still grief

it is a pity ur family is not more supportive. ur cat wasn’t “just a cat.” i am sure they were more than that, family even. i can see that you really loved them.

i am sending virtual hugs and support. grieve as long as you need.

idk if this suggestion will do any good but what about getting another cat?

It s always really hard. I ve been in the same situation. Even lost my dad... .. It s very hard. ...
So u just need to prepare yourself for something like that

I am so sorry for your loss and I am sure they were happy that they were able to have a good life with you sweetie. And about your question, I've also lost two cats before and I honetly can relate so much they were not just cats they literally were my babies, they helped me get through life even. Coming back to home to them and lying together with them was my best part of any day, I think it might be because you can feel unconditional love for the first time without any expectations from you, they only want food some care etc. and they will be together purring with you all the time it is the sweetest purest thing in the world. I would do anything for them. So my first advice is do not care about people who underestimate your love or grief, they just have not experienced or felt the same towards any pet I assume. Being able to love a little creature that wont give quantifiable things back to you is not something everyone is capable of or maybe they have not got any chance before (did not have any pets etc people's circumstances can differ) so do not blame them but just do not take their harsh words too into heart please. Please live your grief to your heart's content.
Second advice will be harder to accept but please adopt another cat if you have the chance. I know it feels like betraying your past sweethearts but it isn't. You have helped them and now new cats have the opportunity to be helped and loved by you, I am sure your cats who passed away would want the same too, for you to be happy and some other cats to feel the high amount of love they once received. It really will help you I promise, because coming back to an empty house where no cat greets you, lying in your bed when you do not have a cutie cat purring next to you will only make you remember the emptiness they left and miss them. You can help another cat by taking it in while also that cat will be there when you are missing them and feeling lonely. I am not saying to forget them, I am saying you can accept that you loved them and will always love them but you can give the remaining love you have for them to other living cute cats who would appreciate you with their whole being too. And I am sure if your cats were able to see you now they would want the same too, you and other cats being happy :)

I am so sorry about this, my condolences for both of your cats, no owner should experience the loss of their companions through such means. However I know you are griefing, but please take care of yourself, goes on little runs and do things you enjoy, I’m sure your cats would be sad seeing you down like this. Part of grief is acceptance that they are gone and knowing that it is time to move on. Don’t burden yourself with their deaths, and I beg you, don’t blame it on yourself. If you ever need someone to talk to, I’m here

Uhh maybe??

I don't think that makes you a furry. Furries are typically into anthropomorphic animals, like characters with human-like qualities. While monsterfucking can involve creatures with animal features, it's not necessarily the same thing

Depends on the monster. If it’s a werewolf monster… you’re treading furry territory, but if it’s a demon-type of eldritch horror monster, your good, even if they have cat like ears or something

A furry is someone who is really into anthropomorphic animal characters, they are animals that stand up like a human, wear clothes like a human and even talk like a human if your talking about people who have just have demon horns or cat ears on their head but still look human then no that’s not what an anthropomorphic animal character is. A character with just animal ears and a tail but looks human is called something else but I forgot what it’s called, this is coming from someone who is a furry by the way

A character with just ears and a tail are called kemonomimi

Oh, yeah. That's what it was called, I forgot.

Super random but you’re like the other only person that I’ve seen to use “neways” other than a friend of mine. It’s not bad or anything, it’s just different to me Anyways, it is what it is now. I hope you’ll do better on your next exam

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Maybe 19 days

Nope qwq this one's a manga I think it has 5-6 chapters already?

They are different artists

Damn, I was so delulu HAHAHA neways thanks for your reply I appreciate it <3

because mrm is mainly for very explicit and fucked up stuff and ppl /know/ that so we dont make it a big deal like rape?? okay. scat?? not for me but whatever floats ur boat. the hardest of kinks?? you do you! some people in this illegal manga sharing site are whiny snowflakes who cant separate fiction from reality

People have different opinions about fiction. MRM is also, I feel like, a very different audience than Mangago. I don't want to say anything too bad here -- but I feel as if the majority of Mangago's userbase is not old enough to use this site or be reading the contents. I have personal distastes, but I *don't* read them. I don't know, I think having debates on peoples morality based on their opinions on man(ga/hwa/hua) is, to be frank, stupid. (I would also rather not label myself anything relating to being a pro-shipper or an anti-shipper) But I don't let it affect me personally.

Yup and even I have of course, have genres that I despise with every fiber of my being but I'm not here attacking anyone, I do question their tastes but as long as you're NOT pushing that fiction is the same as reality and that person wants to happen things in real life, then everything is good.

But people here are just built different. Like imagine replying on every comment on someone just to shit on them Like both sites are illegal and of course mrm caters the darker genre but there are still a lot of wholesome mangas there too and the comment section most of the time are just too good, can't help but compare.

I just wanted to rant since someone just messaged me and told me to not talk to this person I don't even know of and started shitting on them HELP

I m actually mad myself just how much people complaint I can feel your frustration mangago comment section used to be better before 2020 after 2020 users are just babies

Fr, exact thoughts. People here just straight up call you something you're not when you're reading something they dislike. Makes me wonder how they have so much time to do that. And you're right, I believe as well that many users here are not old enough or perhaps a bit young to be able to engage on certain genres or perhaps not really suitable for them.

Exactly, I think policing and labeling people as something just because they read certain fictional stories is like, not helpful? I feel like I especially blame TikTok's userbase for this, I just have a gut feeling -- haha.

if were comparing comsec, batoto is better than gago imo. ive read there sometimes and the comsec ppl are way funnier and creative with their comments. havent seen much fighting too

i was gonna include in my reply that there ARE some wholesome stuff in mrm too which led me to create an account there just to bookmark the manga

There is a reason why porn is an 18+ affair (not that 18 magically makes you mature, it at least there is that expectation). A lot of yaoi is read by literal kids. And if these kids only get their sex ed from the porn they’re reading and then they see someone posting a very convincing argument for or against they just jump on that bandwagon without actually forming an opinion for themselves. It’s ok if you don’t want to read about certain things, it’s ok to be annoyed about certain tropes, but let’s talk about the elephant in the room. The biggest complain I see here is the rape=love or similar tropes. I think most people even very young ones know rape is wrong, so it’s not like anyone is being brainwashed to become rapists by reading about it. What people complain about is that these snot-nosed brats are reading these stories that “romanticize” rape and might believe it. What they fail to realize if that this a a very common, popular trope in romance, meaning that there is an audience for it, and this isn’t only reserved for BL. One of the biggest books in history has been 50 Shades of Gray and its sequels. I followed a blog who broke the books down very well and they pointed all the problematic BS in that book masquerading as “romance”. This series was massive. It even got movies, merch , grown ass adults wanting to emulate the “kinkyness” from said books, yet Christian Gray is such a red flag, yet many fans wanted their “own personal Christian Gray”. So people can complain all they want about toxic (mostly semes), but the authors aren’t pulling these ideas out of thin air. There is an audience for these types of stories, just look at how popular Jinx or PotN are.

Doesn't MRM have literal child porn though? Like, actually kids? Being drawn in sexual positions. Why would you support a site that actively allows that shit.

Also, many people are hate reading Jinx than enjoying it lmao.

Marigold.

ao3 lovers know where the real heat is

if were comparing comsec, ive always like batoto comsec and think its better than here imo. ppl there have more humour and creative in their comments. and there are less fighting and negative comments, from what ive read so far. i read there sometimes because the quality is better than here. i wonder maybe its because of the memes but hmm

A wild commenter has appeared!!! LMAO

You know what, there's no point arguing to people like you. You clearly missed the point here and as if this site hasn't have any child pornography (in which I am not a fan of such content). But I don't want to start a discourse because it will probably go through your left ear and leave on your right.

So have a nice day!

Actually HAHA I find it hilarious like they're trying to start a fight when they literally came and checked the tags and just went there to shit on people

Marigold litterally was just pointing out how MRM allows child porn LOL. if that's offends you, I'm sorry for your job.

~Urah

Same and translations are better here. I only go to batoto if the manga or scanlation team doesn't upload in mangago (but mangago usually copies the uploaded mangas in other different illegal sites without permission so you just gotta wait at some point)

Yes and tbh I love how specifics their tags are so I can avoid what I don't want to read. (Tho sometimes can't help but just bleach my eyes if I come across the covers in other stories lol)

Facts. I believe for young people who consume media that's too mature for them must received warnings. Or perhaps like in other sites, there is a pop up of "warning this content has 18+ or not suitable for ages etc." At least this gives them a heads up because let's be real, we can't stop kids snooping around and it's the digital age. They're bound to get curious. I think it's best if warnings were posted more often and especially here on mangago that it doesn't have the pop up feature to warn the younger audience or literally just straight up blocking them to enter a site that's not suitable for them. Moreover, there are also a lot of stories, usually the uploaders or some scanlation teams aren't stating what kind of land mines will be in the story.


In the end of the day, it's their choice what kind of media they consume. It's not in our control to stop them and even if we did try, will they listen? (Minors are such a pain lol) There are a lot of questionable and very *very* dark genres out there and if they do stumble across such stories, I just hope they don't mix fiction with reality up.

Um HAHA I was not offended. So you pointed out mrm has child porn and so???? Like all other sites have them?? This was not what this topic is about

Marigold was just trying to say putting MRM on a pedding stool is wild.

~Urah

It is a popular site as well and a comparison wouldn't hurt anyone. It shows a good example how people are more mature than this site It's just about minding your own business. Hey, it's the internet we're bound to stumble upon fucked up stuff.

+mangago's bots steals stuff from mrm (both are illegal sites so I'm not surprised.) What you see there can also be seen here

Yeah what they said, FUCK YOU

YEAH, FUCK YOU >:)