
does anyone know a manga/webtoon similar to this? i like an mc with an emotional capacity and w/ like drama and stuff… like freiren vibes if you get me

Idk if any of them meet your criteria and you probably know some of these but here you go:
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/to_you_the_immortal/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/isekai_yakkyoku/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/tongari_boushi_no_atelier/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/saijaku_teima_wa_gomi_hiroi_no_tabi_o_hajimemashita/

they don’t look like they’re in their late 30’s

Aren't they around their early 30's?
Sasya's two years older than Karel. Sasya said he was 31yo and he would have only like two years left of professional dancing (by the point he got Charles). 8 years had passed since they first met when they rejoined. Not much time has passed from then til the end maybe a two or three years? Considering mansions take time to build, travelling, settling down, the passing ballet seasons etc.
how does this twink have so many time to spare? i’m architecture too and i don’t even have time to eat
mc "claims" he has enough time cuz it's his 1st year he wont have time for the freshman 15